How do you manage pressured problems?

@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
September 8, 2010 5:04pm CST
Each one of us has different kind of problems. Even the richest man on earth has also different kind of problems. Problems in our lives could make us strong if we just know how to face and solve it squarely. There were lots of people run their problems instead of facing it. For me, pressured-kind of problems could make me crazy and could sometimes make me think of doing something not legally acceptable solutions. Financial problem is the most. We have different strategies in terms of money problems, how will you handle this kind of problem..I want some of your suggestions to enlighten me up.. Mobhomeir here...
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8 responses
• United States
8 Sep 10
Well, we have problem, but we all just have to learn to "roll with the punches" or "make lemonade out of lemons". You deal with what you get. There are a lot of things in life that just make us crazy, but we just have to learn to take care of it one day at a time.
@xtmlove (402)
• China
9 Sep 10
Just as you said, each one of us has difficult kind of problems. But different people maybe have different ways to resolve the problems. As for me, I will choose think measures as more as possible to resolve it at first,if it doesn't play a part.Then I will choose to get help from some others,such as my family, friends, teachers and so on. I don't think that all the pressure problems are bad things, and sometime we can learn something from it.
• Singapore
9 Sep 10
Sometimes when I feel pressured, I'll go and do something like going to Facebook or flying a plane in my FSX. I won't go and think about those pressures or what. To deal with these pressures, you just have to calm down, think properly and don't let your emotions overpower you. With that, you'll be able to judge properly and will be able to deal with the pressures. Take note that too much pressure in the mind will cause you to develop depression. When I have calmed down, only then will I go and make a plan to solve the pressures. After that, I'll praise myself for being able to deal with that pressure. Trust me, be positive, be confident, and you'll be ok.
@nangisha (3495)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 10
Yes indeed we all have a problem, including me. I have been faced many problem in my life from the most broken hearted problem and being stab in my back by a friend who I already help a lot, I wonder what is my fault. I learn not hoping to much on human, I try my best to be nice to all people I know but I never really hope they will do the same, but its really nice if they act nice too. The problem is if we hope to much we will hurt our self with our own expectation.
@richard03 (133)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
problems? who doesn't have and i'll give a million money and i think you'll have one... LOL! any ways the best approach to a pressured problem is that you have to think of it wisely and not making any foolish decision for it may make it worst. just use your head above all things... peace
@jinghan (133)
• China
9 Sep 10
the best way is talk about your problems with your friends,you can also bate it in the sporting
@Margajoe (4747)
• Germany
9 Sep 10
I handle it by looking at others. There is always someone out there that has less than me. I try to be grateful for the little I have. (this is not always easy, I am human too.) Sometimes I just turn on the TV and dream away. Other times I listen to music or make my own music. The best that I can do, is be happy with what I have. That helps me to be content with the situation.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
I understand financial problems is really getting big and popular these days.., I for one is under financial constraints, without a job is really hard..,and I don't want to ask anymore from my parents.., It's not that they will not give me.., But I think i'm way too old to be asking for allowance.., and it's a lot of pressure knowing what are my relatives thinking I was a good and honor student when I was still a student and now I still haven't found a job..=( I deal with the pressure.., by being optimistic and trusting God above all.. I know He has great plans for me..=)