Do you often make decisions and then give up halfway?
By yeyelee
@yeyelee (370)
China
September 11, 2010 10:24pm CST
Do you often make decisions and then give up halfway? In real life,those conditions always happened to me.I once said to me that i smoke less than 5 cigarettes a day for a period and then give up smoking gradually,but i failed.Learning economy,i failed.Not surfing online frequently,i failed.Make decision and then give up,because of your laziness,or lacking of confidence and willpower? I just want to know how did you deal with it.
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5 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
14 Sep 10
that happens to me when i say i wont love a guy anymore and then i still do ahah i say i wont humiliate myself anymore but when i see love slipping of my hands i just cant avoid :( i dont think when i do things. i just act with my heart^^ even if i get hurt and cry i just need to do something. we all say sometimes is enough he hurt me enough but then i cant just avoid to still want him near. so yes im very undecided person even more when the matter is love^^
@yeyelee (370)
• China
15 Sep 10
I always believe the true love of us is not one person,but a group of people who have similar characteristics.If you have loved one,just try your best to love.And if you really couldn't get together,then just try to find another one.I know it's so pain and hard to get out of a relationship just like me now.Time cures all wounds.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
14 Sep 10
I often make decisions, and finally just give up because of the situation. When I was very disappointed to give up, because I have decision to take only a vain. But I was always aware that my abilities are limited, and can not do more than I can afford. By realizing this I felt a little relieved, but I also sometimes get very upset, because my limited ability.
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
I do make decisions on my own at times .
In most times, especially if it for our family, I always ask the opinion of my husband and we decide together.
It is not too late for you to learn from your mistakes.
@xtmlove (402)
• China
13 Sep 10
I'm sorry to hear that you not give up smoking. As for me, I often decisions and then give up too. I know it is a bad habit for me, but I didn't overcome it all the time. Though I gave up just for the circumstances was changed in sometimes, I also lacking of confidence. I was fraid to accept the conseguences. I want to change it all the time, but it is very difficult.
@mimining (203)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
For smoking, yes, a lot of times I would try to quit. The longest time I quit smoking was a little more than 6 months and the shortest time I broke my goal is 1 day! I have different decisions and goals, minor and major. Usually, I put in more effort to major decisions. As long as I'm happy with the progress, then I get it done. If not, I may not even reach half way.
