Busting you're partner with some one else.....

So what, it's OK for him but not for her?

He will have 2 choices, sweetie. Either i kill him myself or he get lost so fast, before i get the chance to really hurt him. Fair game, that is life. If one can do it, the other one can as well. TATA.

My first reaction would be to get out of there and not to see my partner for a long while. I may talk to him again to find out the circumstances for the infidelity but let’s face it, there is no excuse because if one is not happy in the marriage one should sort it out or get out because turning outside the relationship is not the answer. It’s a tough situation because once trust is lost; it is pretty hard to get it back.

Hi, Knight.:) Oh, this is something that I haven't thought nor imagined.But what if? Definitely, I'll do nothing about it since I am not capable of physically hurting anybody but for sure I don't want to see him (husband) anymore.There's nothing he can do to repair the damage and compensate the pain of what he did. I will not either stoop to his level and play fire.I have more dignity and decency to do that and be like him. He isn't worth it, if ever.LOL

This is an area not to emcamp my thoughts... I probably would go crazy and someone would end up hurt. It would be easy to say that I could rationally but I know I would not be able too.

Aww thats too wrong. Well if I see mine, only one thing's going to happen. Me completely leaving them two there :) And deleting that guy from my life ^^ There's no point in crying there and rage about everything. He's done it, and I know that I can't trust him anymore.

That would be really unpredictable since we can say something right now on what we might initially react to if ever a situation like that would happen to us yet, when we are actually in that situation, things might go differently. We might go mad enough to do some serious damage to the both of them or just be so disappointed that we would leave and not make a scene as they have already been doing to themselves. If ever I was still not overwhelmed with any emotions during that scenario, I would probably take a picture if not a video of them and.. well.. who knows how bad I might do with it.. (-_-")

I can't say my first reaction....probably would not be pretty. I have never actually walked in on such a scene but I did find out that my ex had been cheating on me. The relationship was all but over anyway and the knowledge of it while it hurt, just confirmed to me that my choice to leave was the right one. I don't cheat and I would not put up with it. I wouldn't get violent or anything...that I do know. I'd probably just end the relationship then and there and do my crying in private. Cheating is a deal breaker so there would be no need to exchange words or anything.

hi letran if I had ever discovered my husband with another woman I would just say pack up your stuff and get the hell out, I will file for divorce as soon as I can. thank God this never happened to me but I would never give either of the adulterers the pleasure of stooping to their level and hurting either one of them. divorce would have been my vengeance.

this would be awful and this would be really heart, head and body ache all rolled into one. but of course when you see your partner with someone else you will be very angry, not sure if i will hurt them or just walk out but of course this will be the end of a relationship. relationship is build with trust once it is ruin it is not good to go on. i would rather find someone new and start all over again than to trust someone who fooled me.

That can be sticky. In some cases, we have heard of people losing their lives because of this. So if you are not sure of what you are doing, better stay away from danger. If things like this do happen to me, I am sure I wouldn't know what to do.

I would rather not go to these kind of extreme thinking. I think with little hard work the relation will definitely have enough of understanding, faith and belief to be honest to each other till engaged. It is another story if people are separated and then go for new relation.

Frankly speaking i dont of these worst situations ever in my life... as u just asked about then i can only says.. if i found my partner like u are saying.. then my response may be the same... and really its difficult to answer such questions... Just for now.... Hope for the best....

Well that's a tough question! I can't and don't want to say that it's too simple to handle this situation but I think the bravest thing one could do is to walk away from them... walk away from the scene, then face your partner afterwards when you already have the strength to face him/her. Don't run from it coz your relationship will never end well if you won't try to listen and talk to him/her calmly. I know this might be the hardest thing to do but this is life, we are facing and living in a fallen world, so one should face and fight for it -- for his/her right to be happy & love someone better than his/her partner who cheated him/her. ^_^