Bad vibe?
By mommyboo
@mommyboo (13174)
United States
September 26, 2010 12:50pm CST
Do you ever get bad vibes from people you spend a lot of time with, almost as if they didn't really want you around? However, then they approach you and ask YOU if you're okay... but it goes back and forth?
I realize once or twice can just be coincidence or a bad day, but if it's ongoing, when would you confront the person? Intuition is powerful, if you've always trusted it because it's rarely wrong, something like this can make you feel like jumping out of your skin lol.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 10
mommygoo oh yes it was from Alice the arm grabber and I knew she was not concerned with me not getting to eat. she had some other motive because she kept right on telling me I must go eat after I had already told hwe I would get something to eat after I got my money. I was next in line and i was damned if I was not going to get my money.the food would wait.but she grabbed my arm hard and I lost it, I really did. I yelled leave me alone do not touch me just leave me the hell alone. The activity director called her over to g et her away from me. now aI avoid her and she avoids me. t here was malice oa some kind there and I well not let her close to me again.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Sep 10
ohmy do forgive me thats a typo should have been mommyboo not goo how dreadful so sorry. wow.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Sep 10
No worries Hatley 
I was reading through these and I just had to answer this one first because of the picture I got in my head! People really are incredible aren't they? Incredibly assuming, incredibly thoughtless, and unaware of how irritating their actions can be lol.
I was reading through these and I just had to answer this one first because of the picture I got in my head! People really are incredible aren't they? Incredibly assuming, incredibly thoughtless, and unaware of how irritating their actions can be lol. @moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
29 Sep 10
yeah i have had that before.. sometimes its just an off day but i have had it to where eventually the friendship just fell apart for no apparent reason and when i tried to save it it was hopeless because they wouldnt say what was wrong and said it wasnt me.. so yeah now im paranoid lol..
@34momma (13882)
• United States
26 Sep 10
if i get a vibe from someone and it feels like they don't want me around. i would just not be around that person or people any longer. like you said, intuition is almost always right and i don't like to second guess what my mind and feelings tell me.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
29 Sep 10
Unfortunately, I can't really say anything to the one person that is in my life that gives me a bad vibe. The reason that I can't say anything to her is because of the fact that she is my sister-in-law. There have been times that she and I have gotten into knockdown dragout fights before because of the fact that I feel like she treats my husband like dirt. Now, if I was able to say something to her, I would make sure that she knew that there was something about her that made me feel very uncomfortable and I didn't like the fact that she isn't honest at all.
@IoanaBI (494)
• Romania
26 Sep 10
Hello Mommyboo! I hope that you are great, and with regard to the discusion started, when i feel that people don't realy want me arround i go. There is no point in making both they and me uncorfortable, when there are a lot of people for who having me arround will make their day :)
