would u have a relationship with ur friends 'x'?

@harry89 (2330)
India
October 9, 2010 11:20am CST
If the x of your friends asks you to be his/her partner then would you agree to be his/her partner or not?
9 responses
chanchalchopde
@chanchalchopde (361)
• India
9 Oct 10
Yes definitely i will agree but me and my friends x gf should fall in love for that.If love is there then i wont care that she was my friends x gf and also my friend wont mind if i have relationship with his x gf and i will always carry on a good friendship with my friend too.Because friendship and Love are two different relations.We cant leave friend because of love and we cant leave love because of our friend.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
Yes, you are right in the sense that love and friendship are two other things. But don't you think that your friend will take your relationship with his x in a wrong way? He may think that they broke up because of you because you liked her and all the blame can come on you.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
Yea right you can explain him everything and maybe he understand you and then understand your love also and don't show any objection or anger towards your relationship.
chanchalchopde
@chanchalchopde (361)
• India
9 Oct 10
if my friend trusts me completely and understands me very well then he wont make any false assumption.If he blames me for his break up then i will try my best to make him understand the truth.But then too if he keeps blaming me,i will just stop talking to him.and you know Relationships between two persons never break because of any third person.It depends on their love,understanding and trust.
mustafarox
@mustafarox (452)
• India
9 Oct 10
Well no because I will be having that insecurity feeling that what she did with my friend if she does it with me then so I think lot about these stuff and would have answered her...
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
10 Oct 10
@mustafarox : yes that can also happen to you if you say yes to her. May be she had her own reasons to breakup with your friends but that's only one sided view i think you should also talk to your friend before making any decision.
chanchalchopde
@chanchalchopde (361)
• India
9 Oct 10
Nope you are wrong.Any reason could be there.May be your friend ditched her or he did a mistake or may be both took the decision to seperate you cannot say that she did wrong with your friend.
eM
@eLsMarie (4477)
• New Zealand
10 Oct 10
It depends upon the situation. That's a bit hard you know. I don't really consider it to be appropriate but it depends on how you both can handle criticisms.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
10 Oct 10
Well, if you ask about my view then i will not have any relationship with my friends ex as it can create problems with my friend which i would not want to happen. And that would be mean also. Well, thanks for your response.
Karunvig
@Karunvig (714)
• India
9 Oct 10
No ways.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
10 Oct 10
Yes, that's a nice choice. Thanks for your response.
mariacecilia13
@mariacecilia13 (490)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
There's really nothing wrong with having a romantic relationship with your friend's ex, but it just feels awkward. I can't imagine myself in that situation.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
10 Oct 10
Yes there is nothing wrong as long as you don't have a heart. Well, its obvious that we will feel awkward if we have relationship with our friend's ex, if he/she is really your best friend then you will not have any relationship with her/his ex. Thanks for your response.
couchpotato143
@couchpotato143 (110)
• Philippines
9 Oct 10
That would be putting myself in a difficult situation. If it has been for quite some time now, like years and years, then I think it's okay. Just as long as your friend is not in love with his ex anymore and vice versa, and there are no bitter feelings left, then I guess the relationship could work out.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
10 Oct 10
Well, i think that's a difficult choice to make. Whateve you choose you will have to face problem from the other side i think. Thanks for your response.
Jadsta
@Jadsta (269)
• Gibraltar
9 Oct 10
That would really suck for the friend, I wouldn't do it unless I disliked the friend or he wasn't a good friend. Even if the friend didn't say anything, or claimed it was fine, I know he would probably be hating it.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
10 Oct 10
Yes you are right,even i would do the same.. It would be so odd if you have relation wih your friend even if he agrees to it or don't mind as you said. Although You could have a better relationship if you make any other partner. Thanks for your response.
starlight_starbright
@starlight_starbright (810)
• Philippines
9 Oct 10
It depends. If it would make a bad impact to my friend then maybe I won't. If I find my friend's EX sincere and if I also have that feeling, why not? Often times, there are wrong routes that we take. But things just come into place. If I happen to end up with my friend's EX then probably, we were destined to meet through him having a relationship with my friend first! ^_^
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
10 Oct 10
Well, i think your friend will really feel if make any relationship with his ex. According to me we should not have any kind of relationship with our friend's ex as we have many other choices to make. Thanks for your response.
ivaylo2009
@ivaylo2009 (973)
• Bulgaria
9 Oct 10
Its hardly to say that you'll loose good friend to start something depth.As we all know at the relationship it can be turned wrong,so you will loose a fried.Thats way i,m thinking i'll refused that kind of partner in decent method.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
Yes, you rightly said that you can lose a very good friend because of this so its rather good to not to have any relationship with him/her as it can break your friendship and also your friend can take it in any other way. BTW thanks for your response.