kill ourselves for love O_O

Portugal
October 26, 2010 8:24am CST
hi guys^^ do you think that a boy/girl that kill himself for love is really in love with the person? is he obsessed? or both? for me i think that really loves the boy/girl. even no one should end with his life for love i believe they are really in love otherwhise could continue his life. obsessed for me is those that want to kill a girl or a boy just to be with the boy/girl they love. but a boy/girl that kill himself is bcs love really. what about you guys? what do you think? please share^^
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8 responses
@Karunvig (714)
• India
26 Oct 10
yuck.... stupidity dear.. why to kill for sum1 who dnt deserve u :x :x dnt ever think or do it :P there are many other better options available :)
• Portugal
26 Oct 10
ahah yes^^ there is always other guys for me right?^^ ahah i dont know but i dont plan to kill myself for love right now^^ me and my bf is all fine between us and we are going well^^ we are just starting our relation so^^ if he left he i wouldnt kill myself but i love him much and dont want to lose him^^ anyway imagine that you are with a girl for like 10 years and suddenly she leaves you and she is all you have? you could get desperate and kill yourself. sometimes we dont know what we will do. but i wish you dont do that too^^
@Karunvig (714)
• India
27 Oct 10
dont be despressed and desprate for anything if u want to be happy always....
@lewimc (2)
27 Oct 10
I know i love my girlfriend truly, and i would go to any limits to protect her and i would most certainly take my life for her
@ravend (658)
• Malta
26 Oct 10
I think there is something psychologically dangerous in someone who wants to kill themselves for whichever reason. Yes, it is probably a form of obsession and despair - and such a person should look for help as soon as possible.
• Portugal
26 Oct 10
i agree that the person should try to have help or advises of someone^^ that could tell him that life is too precious to end it bcs of a girl. but those people are desperate and dont think clearly. but if a guy kills himself for love is bcs really loves the girl and is sad that they end like that. they deserved to find a new girl that valued them and lose that chance.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
27 Oct 10
I think, it is because he is too obsessed with his love. Love is sweet, but sometimes the torture of love is much more painful than toothache
• Portugal
27 Oct 10
yes is true that to kill himself meant that he was too in love thats true. and sure love sadness is worse than a tootache ahah^^ but sure no one should end with his life for love. there are other things to live for^^ like our family and friends too^^ but sometimes is hard for people to see that. bcs love is too important in their lives.
@ada8may21 (2404)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
A lot of love story ends up like that. Somehow its looks and sounded in the movie or another teleserye. But anyways I find it really great love if someone would end his/her life because of someone else. That's how I find it, he has a great love to this one girl that is why he opted to end his life because he can no longer have or win back the girl. I will see the guy has a great love but doesn't have determination or strong will to win back his great love.
• Portugal
26 Oct 10
yes is like in movies and series ahah^^ and im happy that you also think that he really loves the girl and is romantic^^ but yes thats true he could be alive and try to win the girl back but i guess that maybe imagine the girl left him for other guy? what could he do? when a guy kills himself for love is bcs is really desperate. anyway lets wish its not needed that for a guy to be happy^^
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
26 Oct 10
That is neither Love nor Obsession,That is merely foolishness,Wasting a precious life and Gods mostvalueble gift to human being.In Love people Live, For Love people Live,Love teaches Us how to live, then why to die . Have a Nice day
• Portugal
26 Oct 10
yes is true that love is life^^ so we shouldnt kill ourselves for it^^ thats true^^ i agree with you. but people that do that cant think well you know? they just lost person they loved and get desperate. we shouldnt judge them^^ we should respect them and wish that in next life they have a better destiny^^ we all deserve to find right person^^ have a nice day too^^
@sender621 (14889)
• United States
26 Oct 10
Everyone handles love differently. Love may not have anything to do with the reasons that someone takes their own life. There may be other issues involved as well. it doesn't mean that there love wasn't real. There would probably be a bit of obsession that pushed the emotion along.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
26 Oct 10
No, i don't agree with you, that's not important that if a guy gets ready to kill himself loves you. As a person who meets you for the first time and tells you that he loves you and ready to kill himself for you, then do you really think that he loves? I think that's only crush. And in my case i won't kill myself for love as love can happen again but you never get life again. Regards, harry, :-)
• Portugal
26 Oct 10
i didnt mean that if a guy doesnt kill himself doesnt love the other person. i didnt mean that. i just said that if a boy kills himself bcs of a girl is bcs really love her. for a crush why would you kill yourself? to end with your life is needed a big reason. but im happy that you wont do that^^ and that you would move on with your life^^ thats the best thing you can do^^