If the relationship turned sour

Some people are like this they are the ones that cause the pain in the relationships yet walk around looking for sympathy. The best thing for anyone to do after a break up is to allow time to heal and or find themselves first. As after being in a relationship for some time we have modified and made adjustments in areas perhaps we were not happy. So once alone we need to gather our thoughts and think a bit clearly before we get wrapped in another relationship too soon. Doing so means we now carry our old baggage with us to inflict upon another victim.

Hi! I would be brief - I wish that I should never land in such a situation, where my marriage turned sour. I wish that it should remain intact and I will continue to make efforts for its success.

It isn't fair to judge all relationships by one bad one. the next relationship you find yourself in may be the best one of your life!

Hi sweetie. That one is really an idiot. What does he take women for? Stupid idiots? I will definately look for happiness. That is what we need in life. To love and be loved. I think he fell on his head or something. TATA.

You really make me laugh on how you write your post! lol.! hahahaha! Yeah I do agree with You I will still look for another to love but before I will settle on next I make sure I explain clearly on things that I don't really like, the things will hurt me at least he know I am sincere to keep the relationship lasts.!

Well, it's truly devastating and heart-breaking when one's relationship fails, much more with marriage. When two persons decide to get married, they must have been so much in love that they wanted to be in a long-time commitment and give up every nice thing about singleness. It takes a lot of deep emotions, effort, time, etc. to get married so when it fails, it's hard to start all over again. We can't really blame these people who have a tough time in dealing with this kind of situation and would probably shut love out of their lives. Though having said that, we also can't generalized all relationships or marriages to be a failure in the end. We shouldn't let one painful experience rule over our whole lives. We don't have to live alone or be miserable for the rest of our lives, we have a choice, We can either live with regrets and bitterness or accept the situation, learn from it, and move forward with hope. I believe in second chances, that love when lost in our lives will find it's way back again if we let it in once more. I don't mean with the same person who have hurt us, it can be somebody else, though the first one is still possible. Love is for everyone, it has no exceptions, love knows no limits. We can actually fall in love as many times as we can, well, with the right reason of course, though it's better not to experience getting hurt many times. We live our lives with certain hopes and desires in our hearts and I'm pretty sure one of them is to love and be loved in return. If that is the case, then we shouldn't stop our quest for love when we get hurt once or twice or maybe more. Just like what I've read before, "Love is always new no matter how many times we fall in love". =)

If I ever get married, and if it doesn't work out (which I hope wont happen), I'll find a great deal of my time for myself first to analyze what went wrong, what are my shortcomings and his, too...and also to be fully prepared to another battle of life that I have to face..alone. But then I won't deprive myself from loving again. Everyone deserves a second chance, it's just a matter of putting things in the right perspective, right time, and hopefully with the right person. I will stop dwelling on the sour past, take the past off the table...I won't heat up leftovers in the hopes of turning what WAS into what IS...instead I will try to start a life of WHAT WILL BE...