update on my friend Kathy

@Lakota12 (42600)
United States
November 5, 2010 8:58am CST
Got word last night that she isnt doing well at all. and they are calling the family to come out here. KAthy is failing ffast and her kidneys are shutting down looks like no hope but to pull the plug. Now KAthy is only 49 my sistrs age and only 4 years older than my daughter this brings it home to me very close I wouldnt want either of them to get in this shape . I pray hat y;ll will pour out more prayers for her energies and light alos thanks
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Nov 10
That is sad, my friend. Doesn't sound like she will be around much longer. Awfully young to be leaving this world. I certainly will pour out some positive energy and thoughts in her direction. I hope she knows little pain and goes calmly into the light when the time comes her way.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Nov 10
thanks so much. Hospis will come in whenthey take her off the venilator and keep her as comfortable as possile usually give a morphine drip they did my hubby. and they could have her come home to pass but dont think they will its so hard on her hubby PAt and her sister MArty I want so much to do something but they wont let me. I hope she is way out of pain and that she goes into the light when the time comes.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Nov 10
Sometimes just being a friend to them is enough. We all wish we could do more. That is normal. But loving means alot too. I had a co-corker once that had the cancer from working in a laundry with asbestis(can't think of the name) but she had to use a breathing machine and couldn't be away from it for long. I helped her with it several times. She was such a sweet lady. I didn't even work with her for very long. But I kept in touch with her kids for awhile after she left work and later passed away. One time on the phone I told her daughter I wish I could have done more. She told me that it met so much just knowing her mother had such a good friend.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
5 Nov 10
I am so sorry to hear this and I will keep her in my thoughts very strongly, she is only my Age to young for all this to happen I am hoping that a miracle might happen Big warm Hugssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
5 Nov 10
thanks so much I was hoping too still am hugssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
5 Nov 10
It is amazing how mortal we are all becoming. I am sorry about your friend. I did pray for her when I opened the mail from MyLot.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
5 Nov 10
thanks so much hugssssssssssssssssss
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@meme0907 (3481)
• United States
15 Nov 10
Oh LKo I'm so sorry...I just saw this discussion I hope everything is alright...my prayers go up for your friend right now ((hugs))
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
15 Nov 10
thanks so much but she went to heaven in her sleep on the 8th so pray for her family that they do get along ok and dont greive to much I am just so glad that the HUbby and sis didnt have to pull the plug she went on her own still waiting to hear when they will do the memorial here as her ashes is going back to MAryland and spread where she wanted them hugssssssssssssssss and blessings
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@meme0907 (3481)
• United States
17 Nov 10
I am so sorry LKo I know you have such a heart & it's surely hurting...I will pray for your friend Kathy's family & you too ((((((hugs))))))
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 10
I hope she will pull through. Too young for her to die. My prayers go to her.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
5 Nov 10
thanks so much hugsssssssssssssssssss
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@lelin1123 (15594)
• Puerto Rico
5 Nov 10
OMG how horrible at such a young age. I'm praying for Kathy to get the strength to pull through. May God keep her blessed and bring her back to good health.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
5 Nov 10
thanks for all your prays also praaay for the family that they get thru this too
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@babystar1 (4233)
• United States
7 Nov 10
I am so sorry about your friend my prayers are with her
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
7 Nov 10
Thanks so much all prayers help hugssssssss and blessings
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
6 Nov 10
Did the doctor tell you what she has? I will pray that she gets better or if that is not to be, she goes peacefully. It does sound strange,but I wonder if it is a form of cancer,
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Nov 10
DOnt think so about the cancer went in for pnumonia and lung colapsed. tried the tube in there it failed. So just waiting now to hear from them to see whats going on. Thanks for all you do
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Nov 10
Something is going on. I hope the doctors let you know.
@AmbiePam (120547)
• United States
8 Nov 10
That must be hard to take, especially because of her age.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
8 Nov 10
yes it is and havent heard a word all weekend. HAte to call but guess I will have too they arent thinking right at this time am sure thanks for responding
6 Nov 10
Hi Lakota, I am so so sorry to hear about Kathy, my praers are sent you her family and you, i have been hearing so much bad news of late that its really getting me down, now its my brother that is in hosptial, and I am waiting for some news as I am not able to go and visit him at the moment, please take care, love and hugs. tamara
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Nov 10
thanks so much and I am sending energies to your brother to get well fast. Love and hugsssssssssssssssssssss and blessings
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
6 Nov 10
Hi Lakota~ I am so sorry to hear about your friend Kathy. I will say a prayer for her and light a candle. She is so young to have such a terrible disease. I just lost a dear friend who was 62 to kidney failure last Summer and I thought he was young. May God Bless her.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Nov 10
thanks OPal. AM still waiting to hear something just hope a miricle happens. SO sorry to hear about your friend yes they are young
@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
6 Nov 10
Thank you so much for telling us about this, Lakota! This is so sad! I will continue to remember her and her family in my prayers!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Nov 10
thanks so much all helps!