Experiences About Homeschooling, Please!

Canada
November 26, 2010 12:21pm CST
My husband and I are strongly considering homeschooling our daughter, as the public school system where we live is simply getting worse and worse all the time, and many private schools do not seem any better, despite being pricey. We have several years to make our decision, but I would like to hear from parents with experience homeschooling. What program did you use? Would you use it again? Why or why not? In your opinion, what were the major benefits, and what were the major challenges? What made you decide to homeschool, and if you switched your child to public school before they graduated, why did you do that? Your input is much appreciated.
6 responses
@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
28 Nov 10
I never did it myself as when my children were small the schools were still pretty good. But I know a few people that have home-schooled their children and have done very well.
@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
22 Sep 11
Don't isolate your children. Home-school them but have them play and socialize with other kids.
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• Canada
20 Sep 11
Yes, I know a family that has home-schooled and all 5 of the children are very smart and accomplished. However, most of them are a little stifled socially, and I'm hoping to avoid that with my daughter!
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• United States
28 Nov 10
I have done all three actually. I worked at a private school so the tuition was paid. I didn't really like it because it didn't seem too well rounded and sometimes they were very closed minded on things. I also homeschooled my kids for a couple of years. I couldn't provide enough social activities for them to be healthy and learn how to work with others though. But I loved home schooling! I think if it's done right it is definitely good up through about 4 or 5 grade. Then I did put them in public school. All three had their own specific challenges and benefits. It's really what you think is important. But if you home school at least really make it school.. don't let them play and call it learning I've seen lots of kids really messed up that way! curriculum is your choice too. The good thing is you can use which ever works best for your child(ren). And you can use a different kind for each subject. Science and social Studies work real well in workbook form but I like Saxon math... you can choose according to your preference!
• Canada
29 Nov 10
Thanks for your input. We are really worried about how public schools in our area do not have the resources to treat students as individuals. Kids are labelled as behind, "normal" or gifted, and that is how they are treated in every subject. Students who are stellar in one subject but behind in another do not fit and generally suffer. Children who require a little patience and understanding don't get it unless they are labelled with an emotional or learning disorder (which of course increases the chances they will be bullied.)
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• United States
29 Nov 10
yeah. I worked in the public school and was also a teacher mentor. It was always a struggle to keep teachers from boxing the kids into certain levels and forms. They have to be free to explore and learn at their own pace.
• United States
15 Sep 11
We don't have children yet, but we already know that we will be home schooling any children we have. My boyfriend and I are in agreement on this. I don't intend to use a prepackaged curriculum. However, we will be utilizing some text books for certain things such as math. I believe in a student-directed approach. However, there are some things I know that we will definitely be covering. The works of Shakespeare would be one such example. However, as I said, I believe in a student-driven approach. If, for instance, my child is passionate about vampires, I see no problem spending a nice chunk of time going through classics such as Dracula and (the modern classic) Interview with the Vampire to recent vampire novels and examining how they have changed throughout the centuries, how the novels reflect upon the society of their time, etc. Here in the U.S., many schools have scaled back or completely eliminated music and art. My children will have the opportunity to study music and art, because the will be home schooled. They will be able to visit the museums, do hands-on projects, and listen to a wide array of music. They will also have the opportunity to get to know some musicians and artists (as well as authors). Properly home schooled children have far more opportunities to interact with an array of people than do their public schooled counterparts. They have more flexibility with their time, so they have a greater chance to pursue clubs and activities that they enjoy, attend religious activities, and be active members of the community. That is what I want for my children, and that's what I intend to give them.
• Canada
20 Sep 11
I'm disappointed with the scaling back of music, art, and physical education as well. Of course, most "education" seems to consist of being forced to memorize and repeat things...and that includes the "education" I paid thousands of dollars for in university! Although I was asked to "analyze" opinions, I was never actually allowed to provide my own analysis, but had to back it up with citations from all the people who had analyzed the material before!
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
7 Dec 10
As of right now I have one child that is in the public school system and one that is preschooled aged, but is being homeschooled by me at this point in time. The reason that I made the decision to homeschool my son at this point in time is because I feel like I know his needs more than a teacher would at this point in time. In addition to this, I think that he is learning quite well and is well ahead of the typical 4 year old. I'm not using a preschool program, but rather using most of the same things that my daughter did when she was in kindergarten.
• Canada
12 Dec 10
I never understood the point of preschool until I was an adult, because my dad worked long hours so my mom could stay home with us. We learned so much from her that kids usually learn in preschool, kindergarten, and the primary grades. We could read simple picture books when we were three, and could write and do simple addition and subtraction before we started school. Preschool is a good option for when both parents have to work (or it is a single parent situation) because the parents will not have so much time to teach all of that at home. An individualized approach is always beneficial, as long as the parents have the patience and willpower to teach.
@tkonlinevn (6427)
• Vietnam
27 Nov 10
You must search carefully because education systems are different in different countries.
• Canada
27 Nov 10
This is true. I am hoping there are some mylot members from Canada who know a little about such things.
@aaronfyzeon (1919)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
I would still like my child or children in the future to enjoy the fun of going to school because they will be able to learn in a very normal way and how to socialize. It is just up to the parents to fully make their children learn things they have to know in life. The quality of education is really up to the children.
• Canada
27 Nov 10
For a lot of kids school is not fun. Some schools are full of horrible bullies that the teachers cannot handle.
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• Philippines
28 Nov 10
It is good that they will be able to deal with those kind of bullies their way. I have also dealt with them a long time ago and I made them stop! I was the one now bullying the bullies. I told them that they can have the right to bully other people if they can beat my grades at school before. I still managed to be the top student in the class for 5 consecutive years in elementary and one year in high school. By that time those bullies are no longer bullies. What I am trying to say is that they should also learn how to deal with them. If they will be confined at home then how will they handle it when time comes they need to go out in the real world already and will be facing and dealing with more than bullies? Thank you for the prompt reply.