First love, last rites...

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[WARNING THIS POST MAY TRIGGER UNWANTED MEMORIES OR MEMORIES YOU DO NOT WANT TO CROSS WHILE TRAVELING MEMORY LANE, PLEASE DO NOT SAY ANYTHING IF YOU'RE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE TOPIC] Alright, I had to put that short disclaimer since not a lot of people want to talk about their first love since the current one that they're with might feel a little jealous because they weren't their lover's first kiss, first one to hold their hand, first one to've ever held them in a more than friends way, first one to make stuff for, and so on. It's cute that you and your ex has been together like that for a while right? But we've all moved on to different people hoping to bring out the best in one another and making great memory out of it since you dearly love the person you are with right now. :) What was your first love like? Knowing you've left your first love for someone better, whom you can love, honor and cherish... What firsts do they have dibs on that your ex doesn't? (Example: First kiss, first person to go to the fair with you, first person to have ever appreciated a certain feature or physical trait you possess that nobody's brought up, first one to cook meals with, etc?) And for those who's never had an ex and is with your first and last, one and only true love, what was that experience like for you? Did they know that they were your first? Or where you their first love? Or each others? n_n;; What was your reaction knowing that they belonged to you or you belonged to them? And for curiousity purposes, what age have you met them? I do not mean like first love as in having a crush on someone and having your heart broken and stuff, I meant like boyfriend girlfriend love or in others cases, manpal boyfriend and so forth... :P Also, what advice could you give someone who's never been in a real serious relationship before who's already in their adult age? I'm helping out a few relatives of mine who's never been in love where both mutual parties are into each other... And I was hoping I can get some light on the situation - one's a busy shy, one's a workaholic. Thanks.