When it comes to love are you materialistic?

Philippines
January 10, 2011 2:09am CST
Good Day! When it comes to love are you materialistic? I realized that I'm not materialistic because there is this guy who wants to give me anything that I want. He's going to help me in my problems but in I must be her girlfriend first and I don't want to that's why I stopped communicating with him for that reason. I can't force myself to love somebody that I really don't love. How about you?
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aprilsong
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
12 Jan 11
Well,i am not materialistic in love.I need real caring.Of course,if a man doesn't buy anything several years,i will fell upset.Not because of the money,but i personally feel,if a man loves you,he is willing to do anything for you.And he will buy some things for you to show his love.The prices of this thing does not matter.We just want that feelings.
Bianca_mergillano
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
I agree agree!! Our feelings are important than those material things. My life would be worthless if I have those material things but I'm with someone that I don't love. :) Thanks for responding.
JenInTN
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
11 Jan 11
Good for you. Material things are not worth yourself. I think that it's nice to get nice things but I don't think I could be in a relationship just because of the nice things. Not worth it to me either.
Bianca_mergillano
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
Oh yes. Material things would be useless if I'm not happy. What would be the sense? :) Thanks for responding :)
CSHINE
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
10 Jan 11
Dear friend, For me from my personal experience I may tend to be little, as I do this may due to my previous experience I got from those girls whom I loved. But now I had learn many lessons. Still may be if the right love come I bet to give my whole life.
Bianca_mergillano
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
How nice! You're willing to give your whole life. From experiences we learn. :)
rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
No i'm not. In fact, i married a plain man but with a stable job of course. Though as of now we are not that abundant in material things, we are happy. What is important is you have some comforts and you are always together. It is also important that you always laugh together even on small jokes. Maybe you are not a materialistic girl yourself, because if you are, then you would surely be persuaded by such guy, seeing that you will easily have the material things that you want thru him.
Bianca_mergillano
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
Yes. you're right. Its important to be happy with someone though you have nothing as long as your happy. You can always try to work it out for material things because its easy but to work out for love is hard. :)
rage35
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
I'm not a materialistic person. I am not looking for a person who can give me wealth. I'm looking for a person who could love me for a lifetime.
Bianca_mergillano
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
How nice! That's right. We don't need material things if we don;t love our partner. :)
rosyrose
@vickyrose (2236)
• Cooma, Australia
13 Jan 16
It's a bonus if the man can provide for me and I don't have to work for my money. But materials things is not enough, in my experience.
asliah
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
hi, i am definitely not a materialistic person, i only wanted the love and that really enough to me. but most of gays has been fool by the guys because of material right,,,LOL..