Have you ever bullied someone?

I actually did back when I was in high school and college for a reason. It was not because I was by nature a bully but because people would head on bully a close friend of mine and so I would do a bit of bullying to make them stop. Back when I was in high school I have this girl classmate who would run up to me crying and would tell me how awful the guys would be on her. So by nature I defend my friends and so I end up bullying guys.

I never forgave them, I hope they have a more miserable life than i do.karma is a B*****

When I was in grade school, I bullied someone, a new student. He was just a nice person and wouldn't fight back. I really didn't have anything against him. We were like friends, yet I seem to tease him more along with our other friends. He eventually moved to another school and when we got to hang out together again, he was still as nice, but was able to deal with the way I teased him. In High School, a new student bullied me. I really didn't want to fight back. As much as I wanted to hurt the guy, he only used words so, I couldn't really lay a fist on him. I just tried to ignore him along with his other friends that teased along. When we got to meet again, like in some get together, he still teases others, but in a tolerable way. Perhaps we all just grew up, including him..

Yeah, i did, and was a big bully when i'm in primary school.. lol =D It was surprising because i'm a very small sized kid back then, yet i was the 'leader' among my friends.. haha =D I remember there was once i arranged with my friends to beat up one big oversized boy, till he vomitted on the spot before we stopped.. lol =D It was so fun, but at the same time, scared because that's our first time.. haha

It is interesting I should come across your post today because I have just been watching a Dr Phil episode where he talks about good people doing bad things. As I watched the programme it reminded me of the time in high school where I joined in with another in being nasty to a girl and I went as far as throwing one of her books in the garbage! Anyone who knows me these days would be surprised as to how out of character that action was for me but looking back I did it because of peer pressure because of my own low self -esteem issues. Fortunately that was the only incident which I am still ashamed of. I fear bullying very much for my nine year old daughter who is a very sensitive soul and easily hurt and I pray it will never be an issue in her life.

I remembered most of this happened when we are in the 'honeymoon' year ie. Form 4 and Form 6 (High School). The seniors will bully the juniors. I normally just a 'passerby' or a 'bystander' that will just observing and have the fun laughing. However, I do try to protect or help out if the one being bullied or pushed around is my friend. Anyway, since it is a girl school..it is not that bad or drastic. Most of us will just carry on and being 'sporting'

I used to bully my younger sister but I make up for it by buying her stuff. I don't consider myself mean to her. It's just so funny when I ask her to do something and she cant do anything but follow because I am older. She makes such a funny face. I can't imagine myself bullying someone in the office though and I dont like it when anybody does bully someone I always side with the underdog.