he who must not be named

haha. at first I thought you're talking about voldemort. There are sometimes people who are like that. But I see them as not my true friends. For example, when I have the money. They'll just appear from nowhere and asked me to buy lunch for them. But when they already get what they want and here comes the moment when you're in trouble and you really need them, they'll be out of reach. Those kind of people are fake and they are just using you.

I can relate to this discussion, chaze01. I have an ex friend who was always at my doorstep when she needed help - money, car, food, clothes and even when she needs a client for her job. It never pisses me off because I know she needs help badly. But whenever she was ok, she seldom call me and even remember me. I would often heard that she was partying with her other friends without inviting me. Then when I got married, I ask her if she can coordinate my wedding, she accepts the duty but on my wedding day, she never came and I was just so upset for her behavior. It was the end of my friendship with her and I am just so happy that it had ended. Now, I am assure that I would be receiving any knock from my door from someone who never know how to reciprocate the love, care and concern that I have given.