I hate valentine's day
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
February 15, 2011 9:55am CST
yesterday was the worst day of my life. I found out that the guy I liked is involved in a relationship. he told me that he wanted us to get back together...after that he changed his mind and he decided that we could only be friends and after that....he has a relatiosnhip. he's driving me craxy. I f**** hate him so much...I was so stupid to thrust him
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11 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
15 Feb 11
Really sorry swissheart to hear this and well now time to dust off and pick yourself up and allow some time to find out what you really want from perhaps another love.
It is hard when a supposed love betrays us and I am sorry and you be strong. Someday a true and real love will come your way. 


@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
15 Feb 11
Best of luck sweetie and go in with a positive mind as you deserve to be loved. 

@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
15 Feb 11
my problem is that i can't appreciate that guy who really loves me and cares for me...cuz I can't get this jerk out of my head. but this was enough...I gotta do it. I can't go on like this or else I'll go crazy

@eurekafemme (5874)
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
Oh! I'm sorry to hear this story from you.
But life and love are sometimes unfair. Sometimes, it seems that they are in your favor but the next thing you knew is that it is already against you. That's how fast and how fleeting things are...
Well, better not to trust him again and move on with your life. There is nothing you cn do but to help yourself mend the broken heart that guy had caused you. He doesn't deserve you weeping for him...
But life and love are sometimes unfair. Sometimes, it seems that they are in your favor but the next thing you knew is that it is already against you. That's how fast and how fleeting things are...
Well, better not to trust him again and move on with your life. There is nothing you cn do but to help yourself mend the broken heart that guy had caused you. He doesn't deserve you weeping for him...

@eurekafemme (5874)
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
That's the spirit , dear. The moment you decide he is not worth it and wanting to start anew, things will be better for you. And trust me, you'll get back on your feet again and this thing will come to pass. You'll be laughing at it in the near future.
For a start, go out and try to smell the flowers.It'll make you feel relax. You will soon learn to adapt and know exactly what to do to get rid of him in your thoughts.
Goodluck, dear.:)
Goodluck, dear.:)@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
15 Feb 11
I intend to start working out and focus on my studies.one thing I'll never get is how you can hurt someone like that...some people seem like don't have a heart they are just like animals
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
15 Feb 11
I won;t cry for him...no nothing. I intend to move on...this was the last drop. I want to strat enjoting life..I don't know what will I do or how I'll make that but I'll strat changing things

@laglen (19759)
• United States
15 Feb 11
I'm sorry you had such a bad day. Let this be a lesson. Move on.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
15 Feb 11
I decided to do that. I realised that you can't spend you life waiting for someone who doesn't give a sh** on you or on how you think... this was the last drop...
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
15 Feb 11
Hi. swissheart. I am very sorry that your Valentines Day turned out to be a pure nightmare.
But it does not have to be this way. Drop this guy. He is not even worth your time. Being honest would have helped. He has you circling in many channels, leave him alone. He does not need your love. I call him, Mr Funny Valentines.
But it does not have to be this way. Drop this guy. He is not even worth your time. Being honest would have helped. He has you circling in many channels, leave him alone. He does not need your love. I call him, Mr Funny Valentines.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
17 Feb 11
yes I realised that he doesn't deserve me. and I decided to leave him do whatever he wants. what i don't get it is why he didn't leave me alone in the first place. he dumped me because he said his ex-girlfriend said that she would kill herself if he doesn't come back to her...he knew how devastated I was after he left me. he said that he hopes that he would convince me to give him another chance...and than what..he told me that he wants us to be friends. I accepted his decision and after that he insisted on us meeting. I had plans for that dh my day going out with my friends and he made me cancel them saying that hey you see them every day..you haven't seen me in a month. I accepted in the end but for what?...to find out in the end that he has a relationship.guess he was just playing. I don't understand how people can be like that,how they can play with somebody elese's mind not giving a f*** how much you hurt that person
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
17 Feb 11
lucky you...I don't know if I'll ever find that "someone". to be sincere I;m starting to lose hope I ever will :(
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
15 Feb 11
Situations like this s*ck, and I'm sorry that it happened to you, but there are a couple of ways that you could look at this.
It is probably better to have never entered into the relationship than to become involved and then he realized that maybe this is not what he wanted.. which would leave you feeling more hurt...
Or worse yet...
To have ended up in a relationship and have him cheat.
Try your best to forget him and move on. If he's genuinely THAT fickle... You're better off without him.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
17 Feb 11
the problem is that i was in a relationship before he dumped me for his ex girlfriend( he told me that she said she would kill herself if he doesn't come back to her). and yes you're right I realised that he isn;t in fact what I really wanted. he is the type o man who doesn't give a f*** what he has to do to achieve his goals and I hate this type of humans. I was in love with an image which doesn't even exist...it was that image that he created in my mind of the perfect, sweet
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
17 Feb 11
and carrying guy. In fact he's a stupid jerk who only plays with people's feelings. he knew how I felt for him and he didn't give a f***
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
16 Feb 11
wow it is times like this that i can really appreciate the fact that i am PERMANENTLY no longer single. i used to be in a similar predicament back when i was especially young and dumb. i had a huge crush on this boy across the street from me. i told him i liked him after we kinda were talking as friends for a little while and then he responded as if he liked me too. but as soon as i started talking about being his girlfriend, he kept saying "later" or "i dont know" or "it's kinda like we're already together" because we would hang out and flirt and whatnot. during this "waiting period" for him to make up his mind, was when i met my husband...weird, huh? anyway just be patient and keep looking. your perfect guy will come when you least expect it.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
Oh the same feeling I can feel also if i were in your situation. I know also the feeling of having such kind of experienced and that was hurting us. We expect from their words promises or not and at the end it was like a wind that blows. Most of the guys are like him... Better for them to go to the mountain and not come down in his life. So from this experience try to make this as a lesson for you not to trust boys too much. They are always make us girls stupid. Anyway this is just a feelings that anybody can react once it happen.

@shia88 (4570)
• Malaysia
15 Feb 11
HI,
So sorry to hear about this bad incident happened to you.
But it is good that you found out earlier that he involved in another
relationship and since he decided to just be friend with you,there is
no point to force him to start a fresh relationship.
Be strong and I believe without him at your side, your life still can go on
smoothly. You sure will get the right man for your life in future,it is
just a matter of right time to find the right man.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
15 Feb 11
yes you're right shia....but to get another men I have to get him out of my head first. it's so hardd...I don't understand why he made me hope...he left me once and it was 6 months without no sign...I lost any hope and he came back telling me that he wants us to get back together.after that he told me that he wants us to be friends...and after that he told me that he wanted to see me...I accepted and now this.. he is in a relationship with another girl. you can imagine how I feel ...l
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
16 Feb 11
How can you have not suspected that your boyfriend is not that serious in getting back with you? Didn't you make a little sleuthing on him, before you took him back?
@goodhunter (334)
•
16 Feb 11
You should have not been angry with this guy. This type of people is not worth it. It is just a waste of your precious energy. There are other activities to do and try to think that a relationship with this guy is not one of them.










