Done
By TheRealDawn
@dawnald (85137)
Shingle Springs, California
26 responses
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
I can't find your discussion about the court case.
Yeah, it scares me too. The way I've done all the paperwork there shouldn't need to be a hearing though. Should be all by mail.
@jasper40t (468)
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18 Feb 11
Dont want to mis-direct anyone, but Courts!,the Law! scare you?, well checkout my discussion about my court case, especially when the man they had on CCTV doing the crime, was another male, not me.
Divorce isnt much fun either, i got divorced back in 1993, i takes a long time to get over it, with kids, it gets even longer!, hugs from every1 !!
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
1. tell the children
2. go through things
3. separate accounts
4. put house for sale
oy....
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
18 Feb 11
Glad to hear you took all you parerwork for the divorce to the court house! I don't like Bit O'Honey but a reese'es peanut butter cup would be something I could go for! LOL!
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
I just ate the two of those that I brought with me for snacks... :D
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
18 Feb 11
First steps are always the hardest, the ones that follow, although not easy but resolution comes there after. Bit o' Honey!! OMG, my address is xoxo. 
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
yeah now we have to really really tell the kids....
@jasper40t (468)
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18 Feb 11
what you at court for? hope your ok, i was at court last week im doing a new discussion about it tommorow morning as it was a very unusual case! keep your chin up.. :)
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@jasper40t (468)
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18 Feb 11
sorry, when i put in new discussions i never seen divorce?, hope your feeling better, you will time is a great healer!!
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
too many things to do, but I'll get through it...
@GardenGerty (169439)
• United States
18 Feb 11
I have not had a bit o honey in ages. Dawn, it has all been hard and you have made your way through it one step at a time. We are always here for you, either to give you support or to steal your candy.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
Too late, I ate them all. :-D
Thanks for the suppport (hugs).
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
Well now, I like chocolate too, but Bit O' Honey is a special treat, because it's so hard to find.
@BarBaraPrz (51811)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
19 Feb 11
Ever had red velvet cake?
With sour cream icing (or is it cream cheese?).
That'll make ya feel better in no time!
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@BarBaraPrz (51811)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
1 Mar 11
Oooo! Do you have a recipe?
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@celticeagle (189820)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Feb 11
Oh, I love Bit'O'Honey! Used to share them with my Gram. She always knew of the best candy. Glad you got it all done. Take good care of yourself. You deserve it.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
yeah I have a few could have should haves, but he is just nothing but could have should have.
Hugs back atcha p1key....
@bounce58 (17380)
• Canada
21 Feb 11
Two things I liked about your post:
One, is that you only had 3 seconds to cry, which means all the crying must have already been done in the recent past.
Two, is that candy was the remedy for the 'crying'. Whatever the age, candy always make people happy.
Anyway, goodluck on the rough road ahead dawn!
I would have prescribed some bubbly and pizza.
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
18 Feb 11
Congrats! I'm hoping everything goes well with the judge. It's going to be hard, but in the long run, I think it'll all turn out fine. How long do you think it will be, assuming all the paperwork is okay? Did they give you an estimate? Weeks?
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
No, dumb me I should have asked. They just told me she would get to it in the order received...
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
20 Feb 11
You did it! You are on your way! Take each step as it comes. I'm so proud of you.I feel like I missed a few steps. How did you get him to sign? Am I prying?1 person likes this
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
He came at me and said "I have a few concerns before I sign." and I thought , "oh gawd I'm going to have to revise it again." And I said to him, "let me know your concerns, so I can fix the document." Well he just said he had questions. And turns out his questions weren't directly related to the document. He wanted to know why it was necessary to take each others names off the car titles, and what I was going to do with my half of the brokerage money, and stuff like that. Then we both signed. Later I found I needed it notarized, so I dragged him to a notary. He wasn't happy about it, but he signed.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Feb 11
You know that we are all here for you as you need the love and support that we can offer to you. The thing is that he knows what is coming so it won't be as bad as it could be if it was something that was totally blindsiding someone.
Do you have any idea at all of how long it is going to be before it hits the judge and he or she is going to make their decision on the situation?
((Hugs))
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
Naw stupid me didn't ask. All they told me was that she will handle things in the order received. No idea what her backlog is.
@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Feb 11
Hi Dawn! Sorry I haven't been around . . . I just got back online last night - we finally moved - and then there were problems getting internet connection. Came to myLot just now and specifically searched for you first thing. Awww - hugs to you, Dawn - big hugs. I'll have to look at past discussions - but I assume he finally signed the darn thing? Take a deep breath - now you can move on. I would love some Bit o Honey - I haven't had that in years!!!!
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 11
We have a signed agreement, so there really isn't anything for the judge to decide.
