Both people are partly in the wrong during most arguments.

@megamatt (14290)
United States
April 6, 2011 10:35am CST
I think that I have come to a conclusion, in most arguments, there are a lot of people who have arguments and obviously it must be the other person's fault and not mine. You're not completely right but you're not completely wrong either. It takes two people to argue. No matter who starts it, if you respond, then you are contributing to everything. Granted there are times where there is one person more in the wrong than the other, but no one is completely guilty or completely innocent.
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@neenie (343)
• United States
7 Apr 11
I agree with you. One of my favorite statements is that there are three sides to every store. Your side, my side and somewhere in the middle is the truth.
@neenie (343)
• United States
7 Apr 11
Oops, that was supposed to be "three sides to every story"!
@megamatt (14290)
• United States
7 Apr 11
Three sides to every story, that is the one truth of life. Even when we do not really mean it, we are going to see ourselves a bit more favorable light. From where we stand, there are many times where the other person instigated it. Where they are the one who is pushed to the point where the ugly sorrid affair happened. There are three sides to every story like you said. Mine, yours, and the truth. Sometimes there will be one side that will be closer to the truth, but there is still a tint of biased behavior within there. Thanks for responding. Its appreciated. Have a nice day.