Mistaken
@chipesterkhan (2925)
Philippines
April 7, 2011 8:05pm CST
A few months ago I was mistakenly tagged as "gay"
I didn't really care much about it
it's because people don't see me with a female companion or flirt with girls in the office.
I refuse to.
If the only way to erase that stigma of being "gay" is to conform to what they think are natural actions made by men in the office towards female co-workers, then I refuse.
Adamantly.
Plus Adda would kill me.
Permanently.
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3 responses
@anklesmash (1412)
•
8 Apr 11
Don't try to prove your not gay too much as it will look like you are just trying to hide your homosexuality and the more you try to deny it the more people will think it is true.
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@kingparker (9673)
• United States
8 Apr 11
If you are not "gay", don't worry about this type of label, and you don't have to clear it out loudly. People would think that you are trying to hide who you really are. If you are not gay, you don't have to care about what other people's think and they would stop the gossip.
@chipesterkhan (2925)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
hehehe i didn't try to clear it out with anyone in the office
but i thought it'd make a really interesting post
hahaha thanks for the advice
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
Don't worry about this.
I knew few people/friends personally who are mistaken as gay for the reason that they don't have gf or having relationship with girl.
It's not a basis if a guy is gay or straight.
Just do what you know is right and let those judgmental people die with their curiosity...that's my principle
