The caption 'Discussion I have started' on one's profile page.

I don't think that all mylotters care where other find their old discussions or not. I am of the opinion that many just want numbers of members and that is all they care about. They don't even see the true working of the site. Now, there are many that do want to get their stars and reach payout and all that but not all.

Not only friends but potential friends. When I get a friends request , it is the first thing I check, The posts they have started. i see if I can respond or not. If i find at least 4 or 5 Interesting posts I add them , if not , I don't . What is the purpose to have friends who I can't respond to?

Yes, some mylotters take it off so I think) when they are beautifying their profile pages. You are right...if they take that option off, how are you expected to go find their discussions. Another time consuming exercise would be to go to YOUR option of 'discussions your friends started' and hunt through the pile! which can take you ages!!

I thought that was on everyone's profile, but I guess it is not. If you still want to go find her older discussions, perhaps you will look under the "friends started" tab. People should not scold you for not visiting their discussions, though, because it is your choice to respond or not.

I keep that option on my page. When I get a friend request and I check out their page, the first thing I look at is the discussions they started and responded too. I guess I am looking for what might have interested them in befriending me. Sometimes it is just for referrals but if I can find a connection, I usually accept. I also want to give people the option of looking into my activity. I have also had to go to profiles to catch up on their discussions when my notifications have been on the fritz. It is nice when they keep the option open.

Yes, I think it is a good idea. It is easy for us to respond to our friends' discussion when we are away from myLot for a few days. That way we would not miss any and it is easy to trace with that caption 'Discussions I have started’,

I follow my friends’ discussions through my email notifications but I appreciate what you are saying here. If one has an interest in another person and wants to view his or her profile having a list of discussion started would certainly make responding a lot easier. I don’t know why some people change that, I have chosen colours etc. for my profile here but left the basic set up as it was originally.

dear dpk, Sorry for giving you such hard time looking for previous discussion dear You can check just below the profile photo "discussion that i've started" how's your weekend,i hope you had a great one

Babyface, I always knew you were intelligent, so what if I am a bit smarter than you...

It would be nice to have a bit more simpler way to be able to find the discussions in such a nice organized order but I do see where depending on who answers it last it does not go back into any chronological order, wishing thinking on my behalf, lol. I do see where the members in box one explained how I would have as well. I do hope you do find it a bit easier that way, as there really is no other way outside of that, unless like the member also explains that they add the sortie to their profile page. It is a bit intrusive to find discussions that perhaps we had not responded to if we do not remember, because we would have to flip through each and every one to determine if we have or not. Maybe for that one member you can turn the alert on and in the future you will have a chance not to miss them, is the only other suggestion I can think of. All the best to you.