Why I find fault with others?

first of all just dont try to act as the boss of others .you dont have any right to scold anyone or to get angry with anyone.they are not your servant.it they are your friends then you will think that you have the right to get angry with them.but its not like that its like a spring they will supress their selves but when it will reach their limit it will bounce and will hurt a lot.the second thing is that remove all the expectations from others,it is the root cause of anger.when you will have expectations to others and they will not fulfill them you will get angry with them.accept that they cant always act as you wish.i hope this will help you.and at last if you can not make anyone your friend then its ok but remember never make anyone your enemy.

nobody's perfect, and i think there is no need to be a fault-finder as it would only cause irritation with your colleagues. just remember the rule, "don't do unto others what you don't want others do unto you." okidoki? just put yourself on theirs shoes and vice versa..

Yes there is a solution and that is to stop comparing yourselves to others and don't expect them to keep up with you or be like you. I was like you before and that is because i think that i am doing perfectly well when i'm doing my job or in any of my endeavors so i'm expecting others to do their job as much as i do. I couldn't accept people criticizing me because in my mind i'm already Miss Perfect. But as time goes by I realized that I would never be able to improve and make myself better if i refused to listen to them and be open to criticisms. Not all criticisms are bad, there are constructive criticisms that can really help us improve. If you open your mind and your heart and try to analyze the good things it can do to you, you will slowly and eventually become a better person than you are now. Good luck.

I guess the only way to lower down the anger and pressure is to be calm and whenever they comment on your mistakes, accept it. It's difficult to accept, I know. Nobody in this world know how to accept failures easily. It is practice and patience where you learn how to accept things. I hope everything will be fine for you in the next couple of work days. Try not to stress about what they say. Just be you. I hope you'll feel better. Take care!