Communication inside family
By ravisivan
@ravisivan (14082)
India
11 responses
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
28 May 11
Hi ravisivan,
Though this post of yours contains more of humors and sarcasm, this is a reality in most middle class family. There is communication gap between father and son/daughter, husband and wife etc. They come and go without talking to each other. And usually the mother plays the role of a bridge.
Why the growing son dislikes or is afraid of talking to talk to is father? There is surely a solid back ground. The fault is of the father.
In my view members in a family should live just like friends without hesitation and inhabitation.
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@ravisivan (14082)
• India
28 May 11
In the last decade it was TV that was uniting people to sit in one place. In this decade computers are separating people inside the house. have a tood day. You got the point I made rightly.
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@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
2 Jun 11
Raviji
Your discussion made me smile
Is your wife is a member in mylot too?
Thank you so much for sharing
Namastey.
^Kalyani^
Namastey.
^Kalyani^
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@ravisivan (14082)
• India
2 Jun 11
No. She is not a member of mylot. thanks for enjoying my post. have a good day.
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@ravisivan (14082)
• India
28 May 11
that is good. above that your avatar name topffer is interesting. I like it.
have a good day.
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@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
28 May 11
How cute of him to respond that way, means he is very observant. It is only my boyfriend and I and he is an Actor and Director so I spend a great deal of time home alone so you and many others I speak to often. lol.
I do multi-task between other sites but have my days that I can spend a lot of time here too.
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
28 May 11
Your boy friend is an actor and director nice ! You are most of the time before computer. You are of help to many new comers. keep it up. You are doing a good service to many new mylottians. have a good day tomorrow !!
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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
28 May 11
Actually not really like that because what is the point on that - why doing such thing which you can talk personally.. May be doing like that if something gap between you and your wife... for me my friend it not practical is look like making playing only... sorry.. see you around

@ravisivan (14082)
• India
28 May 11
yes. u say u can be in mylot and talk to our people. this can also be done. youngsters can do this easily. But old people!!
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@imnobodyspecial (318)
• United States
28 May 11
People who are internet users often end up with an online community that takes a lot of their time. Part of it is the connection across national boundaries, part is the connection across cultures. It can become very absorbing.
In my household my time online, mylot and other forums offer us a source for conversation. We find we have more topics to discuss as a family than if we were merely to talk of day to day events at home.
Sometimes there are amusing items to share other times there are topics of interest, in nearly every field. This has lead to my grandchildren who live with me to exhibit a stronger interest in the world around them.
There are pros and cons to every activity, learning to balance them is a task that is enormous.
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@ravisivan (14082)
• India
31 May 11
exactly. many times we forward mails, attachments to other members of our family. In a way it is good. they remain in mail as attachments to be retrieved in times of need. have a good day.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
31 May 11
My husband always is coming down to my office from time to time to ask me a question etc. when we are both home together, and a lot of times if I am just sitting in Facebook playing Zuma Blitz or something he will be like why are you not posting in myLot? I guess when it becomes a regular routine, and somewhere we can make a little bit of extra $$ from, when they are asking something like this, I guess we should not complain.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
28 May 11
My husband's not on mylot...so I can't 'chat' with here. But yes, my son (older one) has jokingly mentioned that if anyone needs to catch amma early morning between 5-6 am, Facebook is the best place :-P
He does know about mylot too and asked me about it...and earlier when I was here often, he would mention that I am on mylot almost all the time.

@ravisivan (14082)
• India
28 May 11
yes. children make funny remarks. at the same time we have to take care of their day to day needs breakfast, lunch etc. interesting/ have a good day. hope u are before the TV waiting for IPL4 finals
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@latriciajones (846)
• United States
29 May 11
That is so funny. But I can understand because my sons are probably thinking the same things about me since I am always on here alot too. Whenever they come with a question if it isnt important i answer them but i dont look at them when i do. They are probably in the room saying dang mama just put us in the room to watch tv while on the computer. Kids are too smart these days.
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
29 May 11
In fact I remember we were not having cable connection in 90s because my son was studying for +2. After his passing +2 only we took cable connection in those days. So parents will have to sacrifice tv or computer for the same of children. have a good day
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@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
28 May 11
How cute is that! It's amazing what the little one will say sometimes. I don't have children but I think my 4 legged family member would like to have a similar conversation with me. They miss their lap time. Best Wishes!
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
28 May 11
yes. that is why in some competitive exams like banks, ias, ssc they ask --if the animals start talking what will be its effect on our living? think. u will have interesting conversations. have a good day.
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@thankucomeagain (280)
• India
28 May 11
Yeah.. my family is totally onto me
Im typing this exactly 2.45am
i think thats the reason
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
28 May 11
sorry I could not follow. U say u type in the night because ur family doesn't approve ur using computer during day time.
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@thankucomeagain (280)
• India
1 Jun 11
not exactly, i have my work at day and also the net connection is too slow at that time. so i prefer the night time for chatting purposes (which results in lack of sleep)
im just taking a little rest which concerns my mom and dad.
hope u get it
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. He made you guilty and you thought about it... I live alone actually and I can choose to spend my time like I want, and there are days where I spend a lot of time on myLot too




