Why is it difficult to live the way u want?

Nice discussion friend. But it is the fact no one predict future.It is only in the hand of god but we can maintain if we have confidence on our self.

it is difficult to live the way you want because we never want the life that is easy.am i right? we want the things that are really hard to get because if it was easy then we have attained it earlier.so just know what you want and then just give what it takes to attain that it will never be easy but persist there and you will make it.

In my case, my life is currently limited to what my parents want it to be. I rarely go out, and when I do, my little boy is with me and sometimes my brother. I don't get to meet with friends anymore like I used to do. All that restriction would seem ridiculous when it's happening to a 27 year-old, like I'm some teenager to be grounded but yes, I'm sort of grounded at least until my son enrolls next year. This is my punishment for getting myself pregnant. More often than not, it's also our fault why our lives don't turn out the way we want them to. That's why we should always watch out for the choices we make because turning back time is impossible and aside from us, other people will suffer the consequences of our mistakes as well.

Hello my friend, My simple response about this matter, is because our want is very unpredictible, un-measureable. Why I say that because when we said today I want like this in a couple of hour may be it will change, bottom line we don;t have SATISFACTION in our want. If you achieve something you don't have satisfied we need more and more then if something happened we will tell life is so hard... be having contentment of what we have and nuture what we have then easy life is the end result... see you around

Life is unpredictable. Actually I think it is all cause of greed. Sometimes we never know that we are lucky people, and after we get something, we want more. This is the nature of human beings. We must accept the fact that sometimes things dun go our way and we sometimes cannot get the things we like.