Who will be responsible?
By isloooboy
@isloooboy (1733)
United Arab Emirates
July 1, 2011 1:23am CST
Today I am going to ask very interesting question and I wish your repsonse on it as you always give.
One of my friend share this with me and it goes like:
There is old saying, "When you provide Education to one girl it means you are providing Education the whole Family. It is very much true and solid statement right?
Question is:
Who will be responsible for those 10 boys who fail in examination because of that one girl? because they all try their best to impress her during the whole one year.
What you think? Comment please :D
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13 responses
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
1 Jul 11
Why not girls just clarify that she is not interested in boy rather just giving smiles daily :(

@moirai (2948)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
I agree with those who said it is the responsibility of those boys themselves. They should know what their purpose is in going to school. It is to learn, first and foremost. True, there are girls there. And they can be quite distracting. But the boys should know how to set their priorities. If they can handle learning at the same time as courting the girls, well and good! But if not, then they should ask themselves what is the reason why they are in school. What is more important?
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Jul 11
One devil thought, I am the boy and I realize what I have to do in school or college means I focus on my studies and set my goals and priorities and start working along the right path. Suddenly one girl show up and she choose me as her target and start distracting me going till the last fire. Advice me how to save myself and stick with my goal?
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Jul 11
First you have good memory, Yes I already completed my education but learning is still on. I put some times very unusual questions but my aim behind all of them is to learn new ideas concepts and read opinions given by my lovely and helping friends on mylot. Well She can't ignore me that i know :D
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Jul 11
Very true, learning never ends and its beauty of life

@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
hello isloooboy,
Aw,blame their selves for that,and not the girl eh.
It's not my fault if they into my beauty (hahaha) joke.
But yes,it's none of the girls fault,no one asked those boys to stare at the girl the whole year.
One can admire someone and made that someone an inspiration and not destruction.
have a great weekend ahead 


@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
Oh well...in that case,I will give them my sexy picture so they don't need to keep staring at me all the time
jokkeeeee
jokkeeeee
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
1 Jul 11
Well when beautiful girl like you give smile to us on every day some of us think we must try hard to impress you and in this process we loose our concentration on study and get fail in the end than whom we blame :D don't take it on serious note just chill :D
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
1 Jul 11
The 10 boys that fail are responsible as they missed so many facts.
A good grade in exams will make them closer to the girl.
The time they spent on being around the girl, was a waste as the girl will move on, find someone better and the 10 boys will remain there still
But my Q. is - why are you thinking this way? Were you in the list of these 10?
But my Q. is - why are you thinking this way? Were you in the list of these 10?

@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
4 Jul 11
Thats the biggest problem which I am facing right now :D
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Jul 11
Hahaha, Very nice and full of fun reply.
Well, lets assume I am one of them, How you can save me or give good advice?

@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
Too bad the boys simply needed to assume the girl was ugly but the culture is responsible because girls should always be respected according to rules. It's none of them that is responsible. The girl is scorned by other girls if she appear unclean.
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
1 Jul 11
Let assume a girl give you smile and you feel to do more to impress her more and forget the studies during this process what will you do to get rid of her or this situation?
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@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
1 Jul 11
I think that is a very serious question.
It would be better to ask the boys if they think that girl is the cause of their failure.
Ask the girl if she did anything that was the cause of the failure of the boys. If they have no complains about each other then we are no body to complain about it.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Jul 11
the girls were probably taught to smile at everybody so thats no excuse for the love sick lazy guys for not studying. I smile at people but that does not mean I would be leading a man astray.alas old as I am I had one idiot here who bluntly in front of other people asked me to come up to his room and we could make music together. I was shocked but Yaru the activities director took him by the arm and propelled him into the admins office.later that day he walked o ut carrying his suitcases. he had been kicked out for indecency to a resident.I had not flirted with this bozo but just smiled at him like I do at everyone. I had not even talked to
the man. So I was not at fault there.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Jul 11
Well, I am searching for the reason behind those idiotic moves which boys or even some times girls do. Do you have any Idea? What was in his mind when he tried to offer you for music party?
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
1 Jul 11
Its not matter of understanding but its the cause of misunderstanding because girls always give smiles to those boys who try to flit with them. So boys think its time to move further and they spent their times in search of new ideas regarding how to impress her more and waist their time of study in the end they stand alone being a looser. so what you think who should be blame on this situation
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
2 Jul 11
Hello Dear Isloooboy! I know many boys getting failed again and again in all boys schools! The logic they have behind their failure is that they have no motivating factor, so that they can study hard to impress some one! They mean a girl to impress! For me I think boys become more serious and try to read more carefully to impress the girl instead of failing! What you say? I think in countries like India and Pakistan we have got separate schools and colleges for girls so let your 'one Girl' study in one of those institutes so that those 'Ten Boys' won't get failed! LOL!





@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Jul 11
Well, even if she choose the 11th boy these all 10 boys don't you think be fail anyway? :D
@xtedaxcvg (3189)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
I agree with most of the posts here on this topic. Those boys are the ones responsible for their action. The description is a bit unclear but if we take it into context, it seems like those boys admired that one girl and they neglected their studies.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
1 Jul 11
yes I am talking about that boy who neglected his studies during flirt with a girl, is he victim or culprit?
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Jul 11
hi isloooboy no she is not at all responsible for ten silly boys who should have been studying for the exams and not ogling that innocent
girl. She was educated so she could share that education with the man she might love some day and their subsequent children.,She was not educated to trap silly love sick teens however. that was altogether
their own fault.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
4 Jul 11
Well you are endorsing my first quote and I agree with you but I was talking some time we boys don't realize what we are loosing, so tell me how to sow them the way to avoid such things?
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
1 Jul 11
yep but now a days everything is going opposite husband stays home with kids and mother goes to job so why you think boys focus on studies? chill :D
@jeanneyvonne (5500)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
I don't get it. Why would 10 boys fail becuase of a girl? People should be responsible in their education and not blame others. Besides, I question the origin of your statement. Is this part of your culture? Because I can't imagine how would a girl in the family teach or provide education in that unit? I would appreciate if you can expand your context.
@jeanneyvonne (5500)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
So a girl goes to school and 10 boys will be distracted from their schoolwork? I think this is quite a stereotype. It depends on the person, girl or not, on how they should concentrate and performs as students. Being a girl isn't a given that someone is smart. I know I have been beaten by two guys for the top honors at my school.
And please, I know some girls who are don't do their homework becuase they think it as a good tactic to be close to a guy. It's like playing the ditzy blond game in order to make sure she catches the attentions of the guy and keep him on her leash. It's kinda like a bit of generalization to me.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
1 Jul 11
One educated girl can educate the whole family means, "She will teach her kids because she is well educated and know what is the importance of education in her life. In some rural parts of our country people don't allow girls education so for the motivation purpose we spread this encouraging idea which is working very fine and producing good results.
Second part of my question is related to those boys who went to college or school for education but get involved in chasing girls and its common thing all around the globe. So they loose their focus and stuck in one class more than 2 or 3 years. So whom ever you want to blame just explain what you think about it that it
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
hi islooboy,
Admiring someone can be an inspiration it's not the girl's fault because the boy should now how to make an inspiration instead of destruction.
No offense meant what if the boy is not really brainy that's why they failed at the exam
, Besides if they really need to impress the girl they think the other way studying is not for someone's own good but it's for them.
happy mylotting

, Besides if they really need to impress the girl they think the other way studying is not for someone's own good but it's for them.
happy mylotting

@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
4 Jul 11
Do you think everyone is that smart to think positive. Maybe some want to pick up the cup of winner all the time in terms of Girls. So he will never look towards study but to show off his friends how lucky he is?
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
5 Jul 11
Boys will be responsible for their failure. Eagerness towards the other gender cannot be avoided. Everybody has to cross over these stages. Much depends on the luck of parents. if they have done good- their children may be good. they will study well. 

@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
5 Jul 11
I or anyone else can't blame parents for their efforts the do always their best but they don't follow us on everywhere so we do certain things without their knowledge and this is the most doing thing right now in schools and collages. I can say media is responsible to show very sensational things to the generation of TV (Who born in the TV age) so result we fell in these fantasies rather than facing the reality. what you say about it?
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
5 Jul 11
TV is also responsible. Before TV cinema was there. Before cinema books were there. Like that now internet also has come. So.....













