something that you won't be able to forgive?

I can't think of anybody who has hurt me and done we wrong that I won't be able to forgive. I really don't like having enemies or people I am not in good terms with. I don't like the thought of walking in the street always looking at my back trying to wait for that person to stab me..lol! Really, it's just that I wish to live peaceful life. Hate the sin, love the sinner. That's one of my mottos in life.

Yes I had encountered this kind of situation and I never wanted to hate someone but they are the one making way to hate them which we don't want it to happen to us because that would be unhealthy for us people to hate someone.

Hi chiyosan! There is this person that I will never be able to forgive in my entire life. I do treat her so well, however, since she's the big boss in this company. ^^ But during when she wasn't yet the biggest boss, when she was still the second big boss, she did something to me, and my friends which were really unthinkable for her position. It was a very unprofessional thing to do and she did it as if she really cared for us. But you know when someone is being a hypocrite, right? You just can feel it in your bones if a person is pulling your leg or something. And because she did other things that told otherwise of her objective. And until now, she's doing things that are really unfair, not only to me and to my friends/co-workers, but also to other people under her. She's really a perfect example of a power-hungry, power-abuser, manipulative person.

it's if when a police officer accused me or one of my family members or a friend of doing such crime which has no basis. and he will try to force me to be jailed. and when there is no evidence as proven by the prosecutor or the judge, the police still keep me in jail. and the police will just try to get money from me and my family. and when the police could not get anything from my family, they will do harmful things to me or to my family. that police officer and his action could not be forgiven.

I don't think anything has ever been done to me that i can't forgive, but there have definitely been things that i can't forget and that have irrevocably changed my relationship with people and the way i think of them and interact with them. Birdie -

it depends what you mean by forgiveness. sometimes if someone hurts us a great deal we have no choice but to never make contact, or have anything to do with them again, for our own safety. but is not having anything else to do with them not forgiving, when it is to protect ourselves? i don't think it is. we can still forgive, in the sense that we let go of the anger that we feel towards them. because that anger causes us harm. as it keeps us caught with them, we are still their prisoners. so forgiveness is a complicated thing. sometimes it involves no longer have contact with someone, but no longer being angry.

I had a lot of experienced about this topic. One time one of my nearest relative did wrong with me and that is really unforgivable for me during that time. Hurting me so much. That was during my young age. The incidents happened when i was in high school and i brought that until i grew up and became old. When that was happen i feel too much anger that almost want that person to kill and crashed into my palm. I hate this thing to remember but now because i forgive, no matter and this serves as my inspiration to be a good person and hold my feelings of anger and hatred. I won't elaborate the exact details but i can say that this experience was settled and never be happen again in my life. It is great to forgive...

I had such experience where I could not forgive someone. It happened when I was in boarding school. My hostel warden accused me for being a thief. Yet when the scoundrel was found she never apologize to me. Then she accused me for being a lesbian. When the culprit was found she just kept quiet. When I decided to move out to day school she just throw a sarcasm remark at me saying that I was a softy and let small incidents gets into my head. Now mylotters tell me if I should forgive such people.

I would like to think that i would be able to forgive almost anything. If i could not foergive someething or someone, it would have to something so tragic that it would be unthinkable to forgive. i would not want that to be a part of my life.

Many people have done me wrong and I have felt so angry too many times. I've also felt like I don't wanna forgive the person for what he had done but we should really learn how to forgive, no matter how harsh the person is.

I would say I can forgive anything as long as there is a reasonable explanation or a sensible excuse for the pain and suffering a person has made me to endure. Forgive is one action, but forget I do not easily do. With people who have hurt me I keep my guards up to defend myself for further pain from them. I have diffuculties to forget when people have treated me unfairly or judged me unjustly. I can forgive if they give me the reasons for their actions against me.

I would absolutely not be able to forgive a man who cheats on me. From the beginning of the relationship it is already given that it is not acceptable to cheat on someone. He'd rather tell me he doesn't want me anymore because it would be more acceptable than cheating on me. That would be very bad and I'd rather not have him at all anymore if that's the case.

I can't forgive backstabbing and gossiping about me and my family. I can forgive what has been told about me, but if it has something to do with my parents... I can never forgive that.

I have experienced that. But in the end it is better to forgive them.

I was in an instance when there is this someone when I told my friends that I cannot forgive this person. That person was my ex and another was a friend whom I really trust. With my ex, he cheated on me. For sometime, I cannot forgive him and I told it to my friends. But, I believe, I cannot move on with my life without forgiving him. Moreover, it is more hurting and bitter if I have to hold that anger in my heart. So, after a while, I forgave him. With a former friend, I cannot forgive her because she lost my trust. I trusted her and treated her as my sister. But she betrayed me and told stories against me. Plus, I was so generous to her and she is indebted to me of more than $300., which until now she did not pay me back a single cent. Worse, she is hiding from me.

There are a couple of things, like things that made people ;think bad of me and of course blasphemy . I did find that the things that I could not forgive, no one who did it to me came up and said that they were sorry for what they had done. So in most cases, it is not that the sin is unforgivable it is because the person did not ask for forgiveness or was truly sorry for what they had done. In another thought, if what happened to you hurt your life, like if someone cut off your leg or did something that harmed you so that you were thought bad of -I can think of not warning you of the consequences, I would not be able to forgive that person or persons. I knew a lady who would not warn you when you were about to do something wrong. She waited until you did it and you paid the consequences.

There were several issues I get encountered with now and before and it still hard for me to forgive them. Even if my heart and mind say that I will eventually forgive them but sometimes when the memories strike back you will think about it again and feel anger to it. I think it is normal to feel the anger yet even if we forgive those people long ago because that is what we called as feeling..It's so flexible even if you say A now it will turn to B in any time.So there is nothing that I am not able to forgive as how hard my heart say the 'unforgiven' word the more I feel I want to forgive them..Not try to be good but I try to learn to be good.(^^)

Yes, I did encounter a so called friend before who really did something wrong to me and up to now I still can't forgive her for what she has done. At present, she still won't accept that she had done a big mistake that affected me before. I really thought she's a true friend of mine. We were together most of the time, we are really close since I thought we were very close enough that I know everything she has done. Until one day, I overheard from another friend of our that she is up to something fishy. From then on, I confronted her and almost slapped her face and that's the end of my friendship.

I would not forgive anyone who could hurt me physically or mentally. Of course I could not forgive my partner if he had cheated on me. Our relationship would be over then and no excuses. Also I can't forgive anyone who wish me bad luck as I had enough of this in my life.