An Apology...

Valdosta, Georgia
August 10, 2011 12:43pm CST
First of all, to the person I hurt I am soooo sorry. =( Have you hurt someone without knowing or meaning to? How did you fix the situation? Have you had someone hurt you and maybe they didnt realize it? I hope the person I have offended forgives me and I hope this person sees that I feel dumb and embarrassed now. And I am trying so hard to fix it...
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8 responses
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
10 Aug 11
That is very good of you, and I hope the person forgives you and you make up..I also have left an apology, (though I don't think I was in the wrong) and my friend ended up deleting me. So, depending on the offense and the person, depends on whether or not they accept..
• United States
10 Aug 11
Thanks stowyk, it's the same friend who I have tried many times to communicate with and she obviously doesn't want me in her life right now, especially since I contacted her sisters out of concern for her well-being..
• United States
14 Aug 11
That's great Loving, though I still wonder if I did anything, but since she isn't saying,I think not...
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Aug 11
I'm not sure if we are talking about the same thing but I don't think we are since this person is so nice and she was just having a bad night. We have made up and moved on which I am so glad of since I really enjoyed her friendship here!
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@bounce58 (17380)
• Canada
15 Aug 11
Over twenty years ago, I once hurt a girl without really intentionally doing it. I've gone on with my life without even knowing how it greatly affected her. Just recently, we've reconnected again in facebook. A few emails, then a few chat, until we finally picked up the phone to really talk. It took a while, but when the subject came up, she was able to tell me how big a jerk I was back then. And how I owed her a big apology. So I did, and I am still currently trying to make up for it.
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Nov 11
Oh, well at least you did the right thing and apologized. I did as well and I'm so glad I have been forgiven!
• United States
11 Aug 11
You can't call it a fight because no harsh words were spoken but my guy and i had a misunderstanding. He hurt my feelings without knowing it but once he realized it he apologized and I accepted it. Why? Because I know he would never hurt me on purpose. In fact I felt bad because I over reacted . We made up and now we are even better than before. Have I ever hurt someone without even knowing it, Yes I think so. The problem I am not sure. When you are hurt by others you Need to tell them. Give them a chance to say I'm sorry. I Know I will apologize if I accidentally hurt someone.
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
Good day LovingMyBabies. We all make mistakes, that's human nature. As long as we do something to correct it, we're okay. I can see that you are making an apology and doing your best to fix it. You're taking the right path. If the other person does not accept your apology, don't worry, that's his or her problem now. Have a nice relaxing day.
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Mar 12
Yes we definitely all make mistakes thats for sure. I did correct it and we are on good terms now. Thank you!
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
10 Aug 11
Yes i have. That too just couple months ago. I did something that hurt a close friend but i was unaware of it. I was just doing things on my own and i was so stupid to not even realize it anyway after i came to know of how she felt i started getting second thoughts of her getting more annoyed after i asked for an appology. Uhh i wass confused of wether or not to ask for apology but finally i did and she did forgive me. My mind was just playing tricks with me like it always does when i have these things going on!!! Anyway im glad things are perfectly normal with us and shes someone dont wanna lose. Good friends are real hard to find these days.
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Aug 11
Yeah I think we all do it sometimes but I totally didn't realize or think this would have hurt them but now I feel terrible. =( I hope she forgives me, she was a really nice friend on here.
11 Aug 11
i dont know who it was you hurt or offended, or how you did it.. but i'm sure you didnt mean it, you dont seem like the type to hurt someone on purpose.
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Nov 11
I didn't mean it at all, it was a total accident and thank goodness she has forgiven me...=)
@jillhill (37353)
• United States
11 Aug 11
I have....and I think everyone has unintentionally....so I think you deserve a second chance and hopefully making amends will help everyone feel better!
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
Well dear if you said sorry to the person you hurt and you said it with sincerity I think there is no reason why he or she can't forgive you. Sorry has magic. Sometimes it takes just this word to patch up all differences you have with anyone. Just make sure you are really sincere and would do everything to pick up the scattered bits and pieces to build the relationship anew.