Explaining death

United States
August 29, 2011 5:46pm CST
How do you explain death to a younger child like the age of 6-8? My grandfather just passed away and today was a big sad and devastating day for the whole family. My 6 year old son asked why is everyone so sad? What do you tell a child?
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@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
I think it's best the child the truth in the simplest way possible that could reach his understanding. He may be 6 years old but he could grasp what's happening and that's why he's asking for reasons why. It could be by telling him that grandfather is away, his body is here with us but he can't respond at all. Something like that. I hope that you and your family are comforted by God. I'm so sorry for your loss.
• United States
30 Aug 11
Yeah I tried to keep it simple and not confuse him. He seems to understand a little I just wish I would have taken him to church so it would not be so hard for me to explain something he has never heard of. Thank you very much.
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@SydneyJ (902)
• United States
29 Aug 11
If you beleive in god and have explained god to your child you can tell him that he went to heaven to see god but he can't come back.
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• United States
30 Aug 11
this is the hardest part because we do not go to church so my children do not know about god but i tried to explain it yesterday to the best of my ability.
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@MandaLee (3804)
• United States
30 Aug 11
I am so sorry for your loss. You could say that everyone is sad because Grandpa is not with us anymore. As a Christian, I believe that all those who accept Jesus as their Savior go to Heaven and live there with Him forever when they die. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
• United States
30 Aug 11
Thank you very much this means a lot. I told my son about God today and explained heaven. I think I would like for him to go to sunday school like I use to when I was a little girl.
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@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
30 Aug 11
In our cultures it is a custom to tell the little ones that the person who has passed away went to God and now he/she is an angel who will take care of the beloved ones. And the children seem to accept this, and that is why this explanation remained over the years.
• United States
30 Aug 11
Yes this is how I explained it to him thanks.
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
I think it's best to tell the child the truth in the simplest way possible that could reach his understanding. He may be 6 years old but he could grasp what's happening around him and that's why he's asking for reasons why. It could be by telling him that grandfather is away, his body is here with us but he can't respond at all. I hope that you and your family are comforted by God. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
For me, we should be gentle to inform a child that someone had passed away. You can not say directly, but to use a word that grandpa went to a peaceful place. He might stay there for a long time.
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
27 Oct 12
what you have stated is more or less similar to what we do in India -- we tell that the person has been taken by God and that he is safe.