growing old

@jazzyrae (1745)
United States
September 6, 2011 11:20pm CST
today was my first day of clinicals at a nursing home. There was an old man there i never found out his name, he dose not live in the home but his wife dose. She is completley not there she can not feed herself or even talk at all and can hardly move she makes some sound but it drains her. Her husband came breakfast luch and dinner every day to feed her and visit. He calls her sweet heart and kiss's her forehead. Everyday this old man sits and feed's his wife. While sitting at the dinner table his wife made a noise, the old man looked at her and said: you are talking to me arn't you sweetheart with a gentle kiss on her head. He turned around and looked at our tabel and said the doctors say she cant talk but i know she is to me!!!! SWEETEST THING I HAVE EVER SEEN IN MY LIFE THAT IS TRUE LOVE. HE LOVES HER NO MATTER WHAT EVEN IF SHE CANT SPEAK......what do you guys think of this story i hope you enjoy reading as much as i enjoyed witnessing it
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
7 Sep 11
Wow! This is a proof of true love, that true love is still alive in this world. It kinda made me emotional while reading this. I really think the old woman is so lucky to have a husband like him. I wonder if I'll be as lucky as her. Thanks for the share. It made me feel so warm and hopeful
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
14 Sep 11
well i am glad you enjoyed it. I enjoyed witnessing it it truley gives you a new hope for humanity
• South Korea
15 Sep 11
True
@Porcospino (31365)
• Denmark
8 Sep 11
Thanks for sharing your story, I really enjoyed reading about that couple. That must be true love I hope that my husband and I will still be together when we get old and that we will experience the same kind of love. Your story remind me of two old couples that I have seen when I was a nursing student. One of the couples lived in a nursing home. The woman was very ill and very weak and her husband helped her with most of her daily activities. He couldn't do everything on his own and we (the staff) helped the woman get into bed in the evening. One day the couple and I were alone in the common room and he said to me: "Can you please help my wife, she wants to sleep" and then he looked at her. I still remember the look on his face, his eyes were so full of love and it really touched me. The other situation happened when I was working in the home health care team. I visited an old couple where the woman was suffering from dementia. One day the woman and her husband talked about the situation and the woman said: "I forget everything, I am suffering from dementia now" and then her husband said very gently: "I know, but that isn't your fault and I still love you very, very much" That situation also touched me and made me very happy, because I could feel the deep love between them.
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
14 Sep 11
aww thank you for your story as well call me a hopless romantic but i love love. lol i aslo hope that will be how me and my love are when we get old. If the good lord decides to let us do so. I am glad you liked my post
• United States
7 Sep 11
It is a very lovely precious story. I am so happy that you see goodness in seeing this happen. It shows you are a good person also to appreciate seeing this and wanting to share something so precious. The lady is very blessed to have someone there who cares so much for her that way and says the things to here like he probably always has. Wouldn't it be wonderful if we were all in relationships like that. The man will be truly blessed for being there that way for her. Sounds like he already is truly blessed by having someone he loves so much. Loved your post!
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
14 Sep 11
well thanks i try to be a good person. i belive she is very blessed as well. Yes i hope i have something like that in my old age lol..
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
8 Sep 11
I believe mens are more lovable with their partners in their old age because they need a pair for helping eachother. Above incident is a good example for a old men caring his wife and even he is unable to do his own work he himself sacrifies for his wife by doing her works also. But im sure they were fighting couples in their young age.