I snap when my mom constantly nagging on me
By kingparker
@kingparker (9673)
United States
September 13, 2011 8:33pm CST
I felt a bit bad because my mom was nagging on me this afternoon, when I was helping my dad to apply for a credit card. The application was declined, since my dad doesn't have any credit history, or revolving borrowing history before. I told it to my mom, and my mom wants me to ask them again why, and what could we do to make it get approved. I just told her that, if that doesn't work, apply for another one. She kept on nagging, and after a long day work, I just snapped, and telling her nothing I can't do about it. I only a person, and work a long day, when I came home I didn't get any peace myself. After such speech, I felt a bit guilty actually. Maybe I should say sorry.
8 responses
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
15 Sep 11
Yeah. I would go and tell your mom you are sorry. I am sure she also understands that you are only trying to help and you are also tired.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
oh exactly the same as happening to me when my mom nags at me.. =( i would sometimes snap.. but not at her.. i would snap inside my head. i just could not find it in myself to really say things to her. he he still i allow her to nag, and i know she likes to do that.. and so i let her do that! haha :D
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
I feel so guilty right now because I, too snapped and started screaming at my dad yesterday. He was asking me to do this thing and I just didn't do it yesterday because I was planning to do it today and he just wouldn't let go of it and just made me feel really bad for not doing it and so I just snapped. I know I was wrong but I just wished he didn't have to go saying things over and over again, like I'm a child that really needs to feel bad about it. Still, it was improper and I was out of line there. I just hope I get to be more patient.
@fitriadi21 (386)
• Indonesia
14 Sep 11
Yes, sometimes we are struck and then be offended by something we do not expect to happen to us. The is, to try to continue to forgive, introspection and understanding. For what your mother did at that time, there must be some reason. Very less precise when we try to judge an event without seeing the causal.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
i think this situation is not new to us.. we sometimes hurt our parents but not intentionally.. but in the end we realize that what we did is not really good and find our self guilty,we feel sorry for what we did wrong..we are not perfect and sometimes we do some mistake but we can make things right.. we apologize and say sorry.. and i think it's the best way to learn from it..
@ur4mae (217)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
I know exactly how you feel. There are really times that you just can't take it anymore and you'd just talk back and then you'd feel bad about it after. Sometimes, I'd say sorry. Sometimes, I'd explain how I felt about the nagging. Most of the times, I'd just lock myself in my room and not talk to her so I won't have to say things that I might regret later.
@DiaJ88 (170)
• Singapore
14 Sep 11
Hi kingparker. At times I snap too when my mom is nagging at me. I think that you feel very pressurized and too tired that you wanted to get over with everything quickly and go home. You should apologize to your mom as she was trying to find a solution to the problem, only that she nags. Good luck.
