Any Books or Applications on Getting Ready or Planning a Move?
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
United States
October 14, 2011 6:53am CST
are there any how to's books or applications to help you plan a move out of state or country? there are always things i forget to do and want to make sure i dont forget anything this time and i actually have enough time to plan it right but its been awhile since i moved long distance.
are there any sites or anything with tips on moving or a to do lists on moving?
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@bamikalipal (588)
• Philippines
14 Oct 11
Hello moonlitmagikchild. Moving out of state is really a whale of a job that needs a lot of packing and decision making as to what you need to take with you or what you need to give away, what moving company to use. Check with www.moversdirectory.com. Good luck and God bless you, my friend.
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
16 Apr 12
thanks! i will check out that site! i hadnt heard of it before
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
14 Oct 11
It looks like you've already received some great advice but I had to poke my nose in here. Where are you moving to? Back to Florida maybe? I'm just curious because I know you haven't been really happy where you are now. If there's anything I can do to help, just ask! 

@mentalward (14690)
• United States
14 Oct 11
Oh, one thing I can add, put together one box with things like two plates, two sets of flatwear, two glasses, a pot, dish towel, bath towel, basic toiletries, a change of clothes, anything you might need immediately after the move when you're exhausted and just don't feel like unpacking every box to find your deodorant, toothbrush or a pot to heat up something to eat in.
I've moved enough times to know that having what you know you'll need immediately after the move all in one box (LABELED so you know which one it is of course) helps tremendously! And, if you can, move that box with YOU, do not put it on a moving truck unless you are going to be driving or following the truck. In other words, don't get separated from your "essentials box" because things do have a way of disappearing or getting misplaced for awhile during a move.
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@mentalward (14690)
• United States
14 Oct 11
Oops, one more thing. The postal service has a packet on moving with their change-of-address forms. It doesn't have a detailed, step-by-step plan but does offer some advice and you'll need that form anyway unless you plan to change your address online (but I believe that costs $1.00 so it's cheaper and more reliable to do it in person).
Also, major hardware stores (Lowes, Home Depot, etc.) offer tips on moving on their websites.
Okay, I THINK that's all I can add. With my brain, I might have a dozen other tips rolling around in there somewhere but can't think of any right now. I'll add them if they pop into my forebrain. 

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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
16 Apr 12
the post office stopped the paper ones =( you can only do it online. thats a great idea about having the box with the immediate things separate.
this move is a nightmare. we had a perfect timeline that has been pushed back because my stupid house is surrounded by houses that are up for sale and are selling for 40k under their worth and there is no way we can go that low. we will do good to break even.. we are thinking about making it a rental and moving into a apartment type thing my family has that would have utilities included in rent that would be CHEAPER than my mortgage payment and really knocking out the bills but the dang house keeps holding us back. i cant save/pay off much while im in this house..
we are most likely moving to new orleans. i wanted to go back to florida but i would want to go back to my hometown but there is so much history and the cult is there and its just something that even though i want it i cant.. i love new orleans. no one i know lives there which is a huge plus lol... and every time i went there i didnt even have to use my inhaler and i went during bad allergy seasons and i drain my inhalers dry constantly year round in TN. they have less stuff that grows there that im allergic to so maybe i can avoid so many sinus infections and get my immune system up.
im happy and excited but then scared and pissed lol. i didnt think it would be this hard to get rid of the house. everything thats wrong is cosmetic and if it wasnt for the fact we would have to hire people to fix it (no one is handy around here at fixing things lol) we would have it all fixed and try for regular market but instead we are trying for a sell as is. but we just did a new roof and new floors and ac and when we got it it was obviously a flipped house so it was all like new except for cabinets so its worth what its worth but people know right now people are desperate ugh.
god this discussion is 7 months old. thats depressing lol. i have been working on this a long time and havent gotten anywhere except a few credit cards paid off but not the big ones
@JoyfulOne (6231)
• United States
14 Oct 11
Big moves are always hard to do! The hardest move I had was when I had 2 grade-schoolers and was in between houses. That meant living in a rented cabin (to stay in their school district) for 6 weeks, otherwise they would have gone to 3 different school systems in 2 months!! Some of the things I did might help you, even though our types of moves are a little different. One thing I did was get a big notebook. One section was for immediate needs, things that we needed each day even during the move. Another section was for things that could be boxed up early and stacked. (seasonal clothing, etc.) One page was devoted to what I wanted boxed so that it would be among the first boxes opened at the new house: coffee maker, clocks, basic cooking gear, etc. Each box had an index card on it listing almost everything in the box, as well as what room I wanted it delivered to when we got there. The room it was going to was marked in magic marker on top and sides so that we didn't have to hunt for whatever box we were specifically looking for.
Divide each of the lists into time frames. Like 1 month before the move, 2 wks before, 1 week before, day of, and first day there. That was how I kept track of what absolutely needed done before each stage of packing, and the actual move. Plus for me, I needed to keep certain things with me, even though most of the stuff was loaded on the truck. My folder was like my pocket brain lol, without it, it would have been SO confusing!! I also kept a page with the numbers of things I might need along the way...my insurance (car/truck and people) as well as other things I may or may not have needed along the way. It was much easier keeping track of it all in my notebook, and with it all in one place it was great...any family member could check it out and follow the plan.
I don't know if you're moving appliances or not, but if you are, make sure and use duct tape, or some other type of sturdy tape, to keep the doors and drawers from banging around! The only thing with that is that sometimes the tape leaves a sticky residue. Get rid of the residue, or any stubborn tape, with WD-40. (I remember crying because my new washer and dryer had tape stuck on it. I sprayed WD on it, and a paper towel over it sprayed with more WD...and the next day the tape had totally dissolved! And it didn't hurt the finish. WD's ok on wood, plastic, etc.) Good luck! Moving is definitely a chore, but by breaking it down into manageable chunks it makes it a little easier I think.
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
16 Apr 12
i had started a book with notes on what box had what but i hadnt thought of doing it with a timeline/needs type thing you suggested. i will have to try that! thanks!



