This guy is making girls very uncomfortable

I think, i have met a person like that. He may be a person with a certain disability such as lack of IQ, but still we have to be aware of his wrongdoings. It is our duty to correct them and tell them that it is wrong to do that. That's one way of educating him, thus helping him. But despite that, he would still insist in his wrong doing, then the best would be to avoid him totally.

You have already mentioned that this guy has special needs and he is doing this out of compulsion . I think you should talk to his family members and discuss the issue. He needs treatment and special care . In this way you can help the guy as well . I can understand your discomfort so it is always better to talk to them soon and find a solution . All the best

If he touches you, or if he has anyway to harass you in public, you can always call the police. I just want you to know that, if you try to reason with him that he still harass you, you should try to call the authority, or do anyway you can to avoid him when he present. Good luck with your case.

You have not mentioned about his age and your age. Age matters a lot in these cases. If you want to avoid that guy --do not go to places that he visits frequently. Remove his name from contact list in email account and also cell phone. Decide to conduct in such a way that he will not form an impression you are interested in him -- dress conservatively or in a way youngsters may not appreciate. Try to be in the company of others and never be alone. Think and then decide your suitable course of action.

i think he has a mental disorder, he follows you even if you ignore him, i think he has a bad plan to you so better be careful. better go to police station and report him, or if you don't want to go to the police station don't walk around alone because there is a possibilities that he is around seeking of you, he is insane. better leave him take care .

There's no better way than ignoring such people, he may be a special needs person and even I admire such people a lot, but this guy sounds kind of psycho and overly possessive and acting weirdly. I'd never force anyone to do something against her wishes, if she's not comfortable with me I'd simply give her space or will probably go away from her life if she doesn't like me. The way you're dealing with this guy by adopting an avoidance attitude is the best way to deal with such guys. Although he may have a low IQ but that doesn't mean you'll sacrifice your happiness and do things against your desires, you've right to live your life the way you want to. You intent to help him, but the guy demands extreme attention from your end, which I feel is invading one's personal space, ignorance is the best option to deal with such people because when he'll see you he'll become possessive again for you and start thinking about you once again and hence staying away from such people and making every possible attempt to avoid contact with such people either online or in real life should be done, this will make them not to think about you and over a period of time as they won't see you around may forget you, so ignorance is the best policy to deal with such people.

I went to school with a boy like this and I can tell you that it was not at all easy to deal with him because of the fact that he always wanted to be pretty physical with people. He seemed to have a lack for personal space and that in and of itself was the reason that he was hard to deal with. I did find that if you were pretty stern with him and clearr about your needs to have a personal bubble that he did tend to back off. I'd try that with this guy and see if it makes a difference.

I think it might help if one of the other guys tried to make him understand why the girls are avoiding him. That way none of the girls will have to confront him. You don't know if he might be dangerous, as well as disturbed. I don't think this is a case where any woman should talk to him alone. I'm afraid this sort of behavior would make me run the other way, if possible. But you did say you can't do that. I would just be as impersonal as possible. If he gets too close, just tell him it makes you uncomfortable. I think you are dealing with it as well as anyone could be expected to. Sounds like his EQ is very low. I had a couple of kids in my Sunday school class when I was teaching who were in special classes in school for the emotionally handicapped -- those who could not behave appropriately for their ages. They just responded to people in weird ways, but not as weird as this guy seems to be.