I once forgot our anniversary.
By tamirs
@tamirs (1807)
Philippines
December 6, 2011 3:31am CST
Crap!
I did it again. :-(
Every fourth of the month is me and my husbands monthsary.Today is the sixth and i just remember it now.Last month i also forgot our monthsary and this month i did it again.What kind of wife am i? Don't be surprised if i tell you, "i once forgot our anniversary" , i did that before..
Honestly,my husband remembers all the important dates in our life and we always celebrate our monthsary even if we are far from each other.Simple greetings will do and that will surely make his day.
Maybe that is why he is not in the mood earlier today when we talked via internet.
Geez,i am in big trouble..
I hope you don't forget those special dates in your life..
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16 responses
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
hi tamirs,
That is sad but you can make it up to him make it more special
But me I don't forget important dates it's really important for me to remember anniversary, birthdays and special occasions.
happy mylotting
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
I know you always remember...anyway, when was the first time we met in person? 
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
6 Dec 11
Another relevation - Sidy, world is small and often you will bump across people who are same as you 
I forget these days. And worst happened this year (if I am right again) - My brother's anniversary. My wife was away to her father's place. I went to my brothers, had dinner with them, returned back. Later that night when wifey called up and asked if I handed over that gift we had purchased for them 
...
...and that reminded me that my wedding anniversary too is just 2 days away
I forget these days. And worst happened this year (if I am right again) - My brother's anniversary. My wife was away to her father's place. I went to my brothers, had dinner with them, returned back. Later that night when wifey called up and asked if I handed over that gift we had purchased for them ...
...and that reminded me that my wedding anniversary too is just 2 days away
... It can also be mine 
@jazel_juan (15745)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
Wow you really do keep track of monthsaries? honestly me and hubby never keep track of those. Not even our yearly.. and if we forget it..we just laugh it off and be amazed on how long we are already together!
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
oh dear tamirs,
I do not remember any anniversary due to my poor memory.
Besides, I divorced Al Paccino last week, a day after our marriage.
I also divorced Nicolas Cage after filming Windtalkers and we are best of friends right now.
I wish to marry Andrea Bocelli after i turned down marriage proposals from Robert Downey and Collin Farrell
Ugh....I am so confused who to choose among those gorgeous guys
Anyway,you can always make it up dear.
Next month prepare a 4x celebration to make up for the past monthsary 
Ugh....I am so confused who to choose among those gorgeous guys
Anyway,you can always make it up dear.
Next month prepare a 4x celebration to make up for the past monthsary @jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
Well,you missed a lot about jaiho my dear...you will find a lot more 
@Pushhyarag2000 (1416)
• India
6 Dec 11
Fortunately for us, the month of May every year is full of dates. Birthdays of wife, daughter & mine as well as wedding anniversary. Its so packed with those special days plus, daughter has interest in ensuring she reminds us of other events to create goodwill for her birthday.
Honestly, forgetting about anniversary is pretty inexcusable slip. 
. Was that because of daughter's illness that you had to concentrate on that. You better make it up and reassure him that it would be compensated well next time.
Honestly, forgetting about anniversary is pretty inexcusable slip. . Was that because of daughter's illness that you had to concentrate on that. You better make it up and reassure him that it would be compensated well next time.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
Oh you're really in big trouble mira!
One thing you can do is call him up now and greet him. It's always better late than never
One thing you can do is call him up now and greet him. It's always better late than never
@goldeneagle (6743)
• United States
7 Feb 12
It seems a little obsessive to me when I hear people talking about stuff like this. I have never been able to quite understand why people do this in a relationship. If you are in trouble because of this, there are probably other more important issues in your relationship that the two of you need to focus your attention on. Then again, what do I know? LOL I just know that I would feel a little upset if my wife/girlfriend got upset with me if I forgot our “monthsary”. Is “monthsary” really a word, or did you make that one up? LOL
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
Your husband really care about you and your very lucky to have a husband him. If those really matter with your husband. You need to be on such ways of living so that your husband didn't think anything bad with you. That you are not care about anything important in your life...
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
Young married people , celebrates their monthsary.
People of my age, who are married , don't celebrate that. What we celebrate is our anniversaries. So it means one year - and that's quite long and should not be forgotten by the husband specially , lest the wife will get angry.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hi,
this celebrating of monthsary usually important in a girl because girls are more emotionally rather than in man,so once you forgot it,your girl will think paranoid and will think also that you don't love her,but there are still guys who also give importance with it.
@natliegleb (5173)
• India
9 Mar 13
it is just mind game and mind play and in our busy schedule,we forget it and just keep moving ahead and later we realise the dates
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
this is a bit... well, depressive, on your husbands point of view. couldn't really blame him for being upset.
i experienced this kind of 'month-sary amnesia' also, most of the time actually. last saturday was my fourth anniversary. my BF asked me out but i didn't know his plan, so i immediately went to meet him and waited according to our designated rendezvous. when he arrived, he greeted me happy anniversary. i was so.. blank, it was clear that i had forgotten. he didn't feel that bad about it though, he only teased me of my amnesia and we ate out. it was fun.
you need a big calendar with a note written on the day of your anniversary and monthsary. that should work. 
@champoy186 (1638)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
I'm glad I always remember our anniversary. Don't worry about your husband. I know you can make it up to him. Why not surprise him sometimes. For you to remember your special day with your husband, I suggest to mark your calendar. I hope this helps!
@mmgonzales (882)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
It is always remembered. Because my birthdate falls on our monthserry same with the birthdate of our son. And usually before the end of the day we always remembered. If i did not greet first he(my hubby) greet me. Ü
Hope he greet you that day even you forgot to mention it to him. Ü
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
6 Dec 11
In the US it is the 6th, so not sure if it is the same where you are or not. If it is still the 6th where you are, then it is not too late. Just pop on and say hi, etc.
It is never too late to say "I Love You" or sending hugs.
@darapmonsta (653)
• India
6 Dec 11
I feel like you are much of a free type of girl who loves to do her own things. You might have forgot being busy with something.
But celebrating monthsary doesn't make any sense to me. Why do you guys celebrate monthsary, anniversary is more better than this. You don't have to keep remember the date that you have to do this ever 4th of the month. Celebrating Big once yearly gives a different feel and happiness.
