just think before you type here.

Oh shibham as we are don't see each other face to face here so there is probability that people may write it but i think he/she would not have meant it.Don't take it so seriously. Don't worry discussion won't get deleted as its not a violation of guidelines may be comment get deleted if someone reports it to admin.

Shibam, the world is full of different kinds of people and myLot does represent this diversity very accurately. One moment of unthinking action has led to that sort of a response. I am sure it must be a subject of regret now, whether it is expressed or not. Just ignore such comments.

Hi shibham! I haven't seen the comment that you are talking about so I guess that it would be for me how it was written as to if I took offence. I know that it is easy to make mistakes and there are alot of people that assume things that aren't real. If they were mean about it I would definitely be offended but if it was just a mistake, I would let it go. I have had people mistake relationships between me and others before too. Take care.

Shiby..the more you deny it, or feel bad about it, the more people would know. Treat it as ignorance and stupidity and move on kiddo. Over a period that person would realize. What have we to lose? Biswa struggled to express such feelings to mel who understood it but went on teasing him. Happens. Chill.

And here i thought i was your girlfriend Shiby. But thats alright, people with small brains give insignificant responses. Just ignore them.

WHAT! c'mon mamu... that is bad and ridiculous.. but confusions happen as many a times we aren't exactly sure what ages the lotters belong to and also when on a new discussion, some dont remember or know what goes on on the other discussions... I can understand you but then, the world is not that bad... there are some good people too... Btw, this discussion now needs me to search for my GF... Not seen her around for many months now....

Good God, people get personal here too??? And why??? I wouldn't mind if a husband and wife and their kids; all of them are writing here... As long as the discussions remain healthy and helpful and don't break any rules, everything is fine... Why get personal on myLot??? This is NOT facebook... Shibham, if you have some trouble, contact with Admin... Good Luck!

That is why i learned to ignore what other people says. Sometimes you have to.

Don´t mind what others say and move on, shibham. If you find an answer not of your liking, do not comment on that. Period. Some people want to joke, others want to get your attention. Do not play up to them. Have a nice day!

S/he knows about ma and you or not??? If s/he do not know both of you well there is chance that that member misunderstood the way both of you communicate. Be calm and just treat it as a mistake. Perhaps s/he did not do it on purpose~(^^)

When you consider someone as your brother or sister and someone(known or unknown) intentionally or unintentionally calls them your boyfriend or girlfriend it really hurts. I have gone through it, so I can understand how you must have felt. Well, I was really young when I went through it and cried a lot, but with time I realized that I should not be bothered with what other people think about me as long as I am clear in my conscious. There are many narrow minded people everywhere around, as long as you are clear with your relations such people should not matter to you at all. Take care and just chill...

It has to do with more how we say things then thinking before we write it. Not everyone see what they say as being mean and it's not going to be perceived in the sane way there head and eyes see it write out. It's learning about being the bigger person and letting it go. If someone hurt your feelings let then know in a nice way and then just drop it.

oh that is an issue my friend. i dont think many lotters are like that. but dont worry just keep posting. he will get tired soon.