Trust? Caution!
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
February 12, 2012 10:10am CST
When you're down, you live a drama of your life, you need a shoulder to cry for a soul to whom I share your pain. You're so desperate to download your heart that you believe that any man who is willing to listen, is your friend. Suffering turns us into being naive and vulnerable.
But, there are two kinds of people that listen: people who care and curious.
Those who care, listen, not judge you and try to soothe your soul with a kind word, a friendly advice, with a hug and even cry with you. You know that whatever they tell you, will you not judge and that your secrets will be safe. Patience to overcome the critical period and does not let you pass through one stage of your life hard.
Be curious to hear that you are eager to know details about the lives of others, or to acquire information about you, which will later be used against you. For some, curiosity lives of others has become a morbid pleasure, which probably helps them forget their own lives miserable.
You must be careful when you download someone's soul before, because you're taking unwanted risks. Do not know who can hide behind a friendly face and compassionate. Not everyone is willing to listen, and you understand and is willing to assist you.
Some will judge the biases and limitations. And you risk that your pain to become subjects of boudoir and others adorn the walls, which will make mockery and circus in it.
Sometimes it is better to keep the pain locked inside you. Only there can be safe. Or write your sorrows in a personal diary and secret. There will always find the same truth, distorted perceptions and prejudices of others. There will not judge anyone ...
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2 responses
@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
13 Feb 12
There are times when we feel the need to open our hearts to others and tell them all about our feelings,our joys and sorrows,because some of us can't hide their feelings and keep them only for themselves.We sometimes need a shoulder to cry on or someone to share our joys with because by discussing all these things with friends and trusted people we feel that a burden is lifted off our shoulders.Unfortunately,there are people from the second category that you mentioned who are so good at hiding their true intentions that we only realize that we shouldn't have let them read us like an open book until it's too late,and even people we know for years and we trust completely might be a bitter disappointment,sop unless it's a person with whom I lived many life experiences,both good and bad,and a person who proved that it's indeed a true friend whop wants to help me,I would not confess my most secret thoughts and feelings to anyone else.Caution is indeed the attitude that should characterize us when dealing with such people if we don't want our sorrows to grow even bigger when we realize that we confessed to the wrong person.
@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
15 Feb 12
Trust is a two way street. I don't trust easily. I have a very hard time with trust. I have been burned and I will forever have an issue with trust. You do need to be careful. You cannot just unload all your feelings on just anyone. There are people who love to prey on the weak out there. And yes, there are those people hat truly care. But they are few and far between.
