Proving people wrong... =)
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
Philippines
February 14, 2012 12:51am CST
It does feel great whenever you do something that people almost always assured themselves that you can't make it or you won't be able to pull it off and then you proved them wrong.
Isn't it like a challenge, a fuel that we use so we improve ourselves, these thoughts or ideas that people have for us?
Like, how many times have you proven people wrong? =)
7 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
14 Feb 12
Hi chiyosan
First, I dont believe in proving anything to anyone. I see no good in that. It will only spread hate and anger amongst us. But yes, this doesnt mean that I do not get over and rectify myself. When anyone says anything about my fault, I give a listening to it. Walk out politely, and think and evaluate. If I feel, I am wrong, I update myself by rectifying this. If not, I forget the interaction.
This way, my life remains simpler and I avoid too much of tensions.
First, I dont believe in proving anything to anyone. I see no good in that. It will only spread hate and anger amongst us. But yes, this doesnt mean that I do not get over and rectify myself. When anyone says anything about my fault, I give a listening to it. Walk out politely, and think and evaluate. If I feel, I am wrong, I update myself by rectifying this. If not, I forget the interaction.
This way, my life remains simpler and I avoid too much of tensions.1 person likes this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
It's not always easy to prove people wrong. But words from these people are one of that can inspire us to do great and improve ourselves.
1 person likes this
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
13 Jan 13
that's true, it is not easy to prove people wrong, but we can always try to assert ourselves. we need to prove our self worth not for others, more so for ourselves and when we are confident, others will see that in us we do not even need to exert more effort.
@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
I do hope to prove them wrong of what they think of me. But I guess it is too late now, I don't feel I could retrieve my real image back. And besides, it is useless... they rather look on financial value than the friendship or the emotional investment. The good thing is now, I learned to deal with few people who are real and who will never leave me inspite of anything that could happen. I hate them, I hate what they say and I don't intend to prove that they are wrong... I just want the days to pass and to bear the day with them...
I think maybe everybody here have experienced that,cause it's hard to express and the feeling is great.kinda of success and which makes you have confidence on doing other things.lol,just keep learning and help us know more knowledgeable and kind.
@uggonen (77)
• Finland
14 Feb 12
Im not sure how many times I have done it but it sure does feel great! I usually only argue about stuff if im 100% sure about it.
After a long arguing when the guy who im arguing with starts to feel hes right and laughs at me I usually check the data from the net and when he/she notices being wrong they usually blush and say something like woops etc. Then I can just say "I told you"
