A friend is lost.... I really missed her.
By lynpreety
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
February 18, 2012 10:54pm CST
I have a friend, actually we've seen each other in our high school days but not as friend. About 4 yrs ago we saw each other again online for we are organizing our 20th Alumni Homecoming and we become closest friend ever. Specially when she arrived here because she lives at United States. Since then we shared each other secret became like more than sister. Even she got back to US we still have keep in touch almost everyday through calling me or chatting. Last year she came back again to visit her family and also we have many bonding moments, we went other places just to have more fun. But suddenly about 2 weeks before she went back again to US I felt a little strange feeling about her, I felt that she is already different, there is a sudden changes in her talking, in the way she act, I felt she's not my friend who's talking to me like that. I just don't mind it, I just thought maybe she is tired and lots of problems in her family. Until she already got back in the US and I can say's that she's been totally changed the way she were before. Were still have communication but not that much, I just felt now she is a stranger to me and not like before. These past few months she told me that she will visit again around February for some business on her province, well I don't ask her If I will go with her I just wait her to ask me or to tell me if we will see each other. Until now I don't know if she is already arrived here, the last message I ask her when are she coming back but no replies. I always send her message almost everyday to say hi and to say that I missed her but no replies. It's kinda hurt on my side because I don't know why she has changed a lot. I love her she's like a sister to me but I don't understand why she have change for no reason for me to explain. I'm very sad of what happening to our friendship were been their through happy and hard times but now I don't know were she is I felt so lonely and alone. I treat her like my one and only best friend. I hope someday she will answer all my questions, I'm still hoping that soon she will call me and our friendship will be together again.
Thanks mylot friends for reading my story It is I just want to tell someone what I felt right now I know there a lot of friends here can rely on whats happening to me. I hope you can share your story too.

4 responses
@TheIrishClog (985)
• Ireland
19 Feb 12
As I was just saying to someone else on here today, I've been friends with a girl for 15 years now, but it's a very on and off friendship. Our lives, relationships and jobs separate us quite often, we might not speak at all for a year, but we always come back to one another and pick up where we left off. Friends are not always for life, sometimes they're just on borrowed time, we can't keep them by our sides forever, but we should enjoy them while we have them.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
Yhea your right maybe I just missed her so much that's why I'm so lonely without any news about her.
@GemmaR (8517)
•
19 Feb 12
It is horrible when we lose a friend who we might have been very close with in the past, but we have to come to terms with the fact that we are normally only friends with people for the short time that we need to be, and then we drift from them. Unless you have similar interests to your work friends, for example, then you're not going to stay friends with them once you're no longer working together. If you were friends with other Mums while your children were younger then you most likely won't still be their friend when your children no longer play together. It's hard, but is sadly just another fact of life.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
Thanks maybe I will consider that and face the fact that there is no permanent in this world.

@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
27 Mar 12
well friendships dont really last.specially if there are not much communication and over time people also change.what is important now is that you have new friends that you can count on..i have a bestfriend way back in my high school days too but when i met also recently we were not the same as bestfriends like before.bu the way we are both at same age i have noticed...maybe you are also one of my school mate...just joking..



@pahak627 (5347)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
Don't worry so much about it. Friends come and go. In your case, maybe your friends is just busy with her life so that she has no time to chat or contact you everyday. Just wait and maybe you will be communicating again. I also experienced that, I had a classmate before whom I met in facebook. We were always chatting almost everyday but when she came to visit her hometown, we met but I had no time to go with her despite her invitations because of my work. From then on we just don't chat. I saw her online but I did not attempt to greet her. She likewise did not greet me.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
Thanks I hope someday we will catch up things together.




