Lauds and criticize
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
April 1, 2012 4:43am CST
There are many people who can not performance, unless you critics. Lauds them seem absolutely appropriate and, after they receive good words make them sleep in one ear and was not even fight to keep the level at which they were before. In any case no longer want to progress ...
"I'm the best" - they say, and go on through life with great pride. They are the ones who need to blame someone and shake them. To show that there is, hat, long way to perfection as they can and often wrong and they do ... just a critique of authority sins committed out of carelessness.
There are, however, and people who just praise motivates them, and get them to want to be better. That only love can push them to their most noble versions. Who need support to grow and feel confident in them. Those criticisms he makes them ashamed and close to them, forcing them to give a few steps back.
It's always a game of our lives that we must learn to find our balance. Nobody likes criticism, all love praise, but we must find a middle way to becoming, every day of our lives better. I live with and love. I need confirmation that you can move forward. But I learned, after much toil, to watch for criticism and try to see what was needed. Sometimes I fail to tame myself. But yet and still make a step towards tomorrow, longing to learn something more. From those who praise me. From those who criticize me. But most of those who love me.
Need laude? Easily bear the criticism?
1 response
@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
3 Apr 12
It's obvious that nobody loves to be criticized,but sometimes there is no other choice,we have to criticize others or we have to accept criticism because we all make mistakes in life and we should have the strength to accept them,but whenever we criticize or whenever we praise someone we must always be very careful with our words.A person who is criticized too harsh might have an extremely negative reaction towards its critics,while someone who receives too much praise might reach a state of complacency that will prevent that person from achieving further success.That's why it is very important to try to be moderate both in praise and criticism if we want our message to be understood and interpreted correctly by those who, we either praise or criticize.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
4 Apr 12
In everyday life, at work or between people, we side and praise and criticism and the kind words and insults, should learn to appreciate the words you really deserve, and not go head any malice. Even if you love praise and sometimes even craving them in everything we do is good to keep in mind the critics, many times I personally had learned from the critics. So I think that equilibrium comes from balance, criticism-praise. I have become more performance if we had held to the ear when we see someone defects, shortcomings.
When you want to become more fully listen to the critics, you are interested in what they think others we do not have.
When you love you feel like all you do is good, that everything you touch comes alive.
Now, it depends who you who criticize and praise you. But never think that criticism should you down. If you catch them the essence always win.
Thanks for response.
