How to cope up with break ups?
By zaskasahagun
@zaskasahagun (346)
Philippines
April 6, 2012 9:17am CST
I've had my heart badly broken when I was still young. It was a break up with my first love. Ouch. The bad thing is that, I dont even know the reason why he broke up with me. We lasted for like a year, and then he suddenly he said that he has problems and that he has to fix it on his own. And I'm left all alone. I remembered how terrible I was after the break up. and until now, I do not know how I was able to survive from that painful heartbreak. What really are the techniques to properly deal with it, if there are any? Or simply, how to handle break ups in a positive way?
5 responses
@MissPiggy (1748)
• Indonesia
6 Apr 12
Well, move on. That's the most positive way to handle break ups. I am not saying it's easy. I've been there. I cried for three days, even I got sick and couldn't get out of my room. But then on the fourth day, I was fine. Of course I'm still hurt, now. But at least I'm stronger. The positive result of a broken heart is that we become stronger. Well, if we choose to be stronger. If we choose to move on. Just like Robert Frost said that there are three words to sum up life: it goes on.
@Sindrum91 (254)
• United States
7 Apr 12
I think misspiggy said it best. The only thing I would add is time heals all wounds. At one time in my life i may have been really hurt over a breakup. I remember crying and thinking it was the end of the world. But now i look back on it, and I can't believe I was so upset. After a while if it's not meant to be you get over it. I am glad now that I am not with the same people. Because I would not be with my girlfriend today. Who i wouldn't trade in for anyyybodddyyy :) Now if she breaks my heart, then I'm in trouble lol. (but she wont) :)
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
7 Apr 12
hi there,
i know it won't be that easy to deal with a heart break. but i hope you feel better soon. i haven't had a hard break before, but when my boyfriend and i fight, i get so hurt and i just can't stop crying 
i would just stay awake all night waiting for his call and text. but i know it is always better to cry it all out.
i would just stay awake all night waiting for his call and text. but i know it is always better to cry it all out. @Extourmed (191)
• Bulgaria
7 Apr 12
Well if you love someone and that exact someone broke up with you its impossible for you not to suffer. Some of us suffer more some of us suffer less, but there is a suffer and that's unavoidable. I've got my heart broken when I was in high school 8th grade and I was so miserable and lonely and I started to drink everyday even I was only 15 years old. A year later I found out that that's not the solution so I start going to the gym or jogging. I stop smoking and drinking and start healthier life and the time was passing by and suddenly I moved on. So every hard break up makes you just stronger and don't forget that time heals :).
@krizzy (237)
• Philippines
9 Apr 12
hi..break ups are indeed very heartbreaking..it's like your heart is being pierced by so many small needles..but as time goes by, you don't realize that you are healing little by little..and you will be thankful the break up happened because there is the right someone that is way far better than the last!:)
