It's not just yet the right time.

When you really don't like, just don't force yourself to move more. I think it is not a right time yet for you starting in a new relationship. You just enjoy your single time now and i know you have many chances in front. Keep being happy always

I have a boyfriend, and we love each other very much, but I feel like I have failed him because I won't be able to give him what he wants. When we met and fell in love things were great, but then things began to fall apart, and mostly on my end. Yes, I now have my English Degree, and I am in Grad School, and I am getting a great job, but with my new medical condition... we can't have children of our own now. When we first fell in love, I wanted us to graduate school, get settled, get married, and eventually, have children, but now, some of that might not happen. The children part won't because I will have to go see so many doctors and be on so many medications. He and I have been through so much, and I really don't know how he stays by my side?

"You can't hurry love, you just have to wait, love don't come easy, it's a case of give and take..." lyrics from a song that i really enjoyed listening to way back then. To really fall in love is not a choice, but a chance that happens at an unexpected place and time, and when it does happen, then you will know that you are ready to experience it.

Don't force yourself to be in a situation, that you don't like, ed. Have a heart to heart talk with the guy. Perhaps the guy can feel your admiration so he is insistent. Maybe you can hide that admiration first and treat him like before. That way, he will not insist anymore.

You're right.. There's no need to be in rush.. We can't force our self to be in a relationship if we're not yet ready for it.. It's not like a game that we can just get out into quickly.. It should be taken with a responsibility.. You just made a god choice to take it slowly... :)

I think we are of the same situation and I firmly believe that we should not rush into things especially if we are not yet ready. There is nothing wrong with being single. As long as we are not hurting other people or just as long as we are causing no harm to other, we can take our time and enjoy our days of being single being going into relationship.

i don't see the point in ever hurrying. just let it happen and you'll know when the love is genuine.

true...youre still young and there no reason to hurry up and get a man...just enjoy yourself and try to find your true love just like in the fairy tales and im sure you will find the one in the right time...

Hi there! nice meeting you on my lot. In regards to your post, I had a similar situation because there's this guy friend who liked me but I don't like him like that. I was not comfortable with him because he does act like that I'm his girl and stuff. I had to find away to tell him I'm not into that stuff because he made me ackward when we saw each other at church. I'm single too and I'm not looking for anyone because I'm not ready. I also feel i don't know how to handle a relationship so what is the point of me having b/f or wanting one. I just feel i need to look for a job first and maybe those things can come by. So what happened when the guy realized about what you said? Staying single is safe. Having relationships for me at this time, well I can say there's drama...I have a friend who was in a relationship for about 8 or 9months but he broke up with her and she still still loves him after they broken up. I don't think I'll handle if i was in her shoes. I'd be crying and moping and all that. I'm not in hurry for relationships. If you aren't in hurry for relationships, then no need to.

We are human beings and it is quite common to have love relations in this age but such relations should not effect us and our future. Before starting a deep relations you need to ask your parents permission so that you have the full permission to enjoy the relation and no one will stop it. I think there is enough time for you to have a good relation.