people who have double standards

@hotsummer (13919)
Philippines
May 29, 2012 9:03pm CST
this is what makes me feel frustrated to see in some people. most specially people at home. my mom would always that she never make a mistake and need to follow what she wants. and so i told her how come you can say that and you would still feel right to say that. when i tried to say that back to her , she said I am not a God not to commit mistakes. How come she is not able to realize that when she said that . I know being a parent is not easy, but i am not a difficult child when i was growing up. i don't go out at all when i wsa growing up because it wsa expected of me to stay home. i don't have any vices at all. i just stay at home, clean the home every day almost the whole day. and on top of that , i would always hear that i just eat the food at home and that i owe every thing to her when i was growing. it is like, of course, you need to support me when i was growing. it was your responsibility. how come i should always be reminded about that. but family are family. still have to accept them, as i do want to accept them for what they are. just that i hope they should accept me for what i am.
2 responses
@mervyn07 (437)
• Singapore
31 May 12
The one who make you frustrated is not other people but yourself. Only you can affect yourself. Because you choose to be bother about it, that is why you are frustrated, if you choose to let go, you will feel happier, so it is still your mind tha you need to control
@GemmaR (8517)
30 May 12
I have a friend who always complains about people who talk about her behind her back, but in complaining this means that she is doing exactly the same thing. One of the things that annoys me the most in life is people who don't seem to realise that they're actually doing something even worse than what the people they're talking about are doing. I wish everyone would just try harder to get on with the other people in their life, as the world would be a much better place if they were just able to do this.