population explosion

@allknowing (153544)
India
June 7, 2012 1:02am CST
When the world is busting at its seams with population beyond control and efforts are under way to contain it, here is a family that is raving about the number it has. There was an engagement ceremony recently, and a picture taken of the children and their grandchildren of this couple who are no more, is being proudly circulated all over. They are proud of this achievement almost looking down upon those who have hardly one or two that could be called their family. While those who have one or two are the real contributors to maintain the balance why do people keep mum on the subject and tell those who rave about their number that they in fact are a load? Have you experienced this in your life and what has been your reaction?
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@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
7 Jun 12
Actually, I come from what is considered a big family in Canada. I have 2 brothers and 3 sisters. I guess it has it's good points and it's bad points. In my parent's case, it wasn't a matter of having as many children as they could afford or wishing to brag about their big family, it was because my mother is Roman Catholic and she was raised to believe in not practising birth control. She was taught that she was to have as many children as God sent her. I myself have 2 children, both sons and that is quite enough for me. After the birth of my second son everyone said to me "oh you have to try for a girl now". My response was "no, two boys are just fine". I guess it all comes down to personal choice and in some cases, religious beliefs.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
8 Jun 12
I too come from a family with many kids but at that time there were no fears of population explosion but now the world is shouting hoarse to curb population. And those that I am talking of are from my generation when a lot was being said and control measures recommended. I am not so much vexed by the number but the pride these people take in show casing that picture as though they have achieved something great that needs to be praised. Ugh!!
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
9 Jun 12
Only at get togethers and functions the progeny meets - uncles, aunts, brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews and may be some grand children. One big happy family? Never. Once dispersed each will be wallowing in their own misery with none to come to their aid. This is the bitter truth Sue..
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
8 Jun 12
Oh I know exactly what you mean. As if having a whole lot of children is something to celebrate. Don't get me wrong, babies are a great miracle but one must also be responsible. I find often times it is the people with the most kids who are least capable of taking of them and raising them. Too often the younger kids become the responsibility of and a burden to the older kids because the parents are too busy and too burnt out to take care of them.
@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
7 Jun 12
I hear a lot about over population,and I know some people with large families. I know others who have none. What is important to me is that people who have large families should have the resources to care for them as well. Sadly that is not always the case. I hear about crowded places, and I know they exist, but I just recently had a drive through many many miles of unpopulated areas. If we could only spread out the crowded ones a bit it surely would help.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
8 Jun 12
What good is that number GG even if they are all well off when, the only time they get together is for functions and occasions. My contention is that feeling of being great just to belong to that family has numbers! Spreading out is indeed a good idea but in the absence of any infrastructure for a decent living people would not want to go away from developed places.
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
7 Jun 12
How can we say this allknowing! It would be rather hurtful and show lack of courtesy. Moreover, if someone is going to ask us “why? How is it your concern? Are you going to feed my children" what will we answer? There was a maid [old woman] /helper/assistant [whatever you choose to call]in our house. She had four daughters and a son and one of her daughters [who would be less than 45 today] chose to have five children. This was just a few years back. Her "hero' [husband] is an unskilled worker in construction, going for daily wages and was then getting slightly more experienced to soon become the chief. Now he said " I can feed fifty children of mine"! proudly when someone remarked on their folly. So, if less affluent people behave like this you just can imagine the rest.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
7 Jun 12
I am not talking particularly about those who are responsible for this explosion but those who are a part of it and pride themselves that they belong to this family.
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
7 Jun 12
Just keep the name "Virginia" with the first five letters in intact! Accomplished! Now to be serious, since the era of the "Baby Boomers" the Canadian family unit has seriously declined to one or two offspring! Hence,our huge exceptance of immigrants. Also, $ex education in schools, for the errant Public seems to have kept population on the decline! If the family is forminable, that seems fine to me...but I do worry about the countries that seem to lack education...and control, as it ultimately ends up being all of our concerns--especially in the light of major disasters, war and strife! I do care!
• Canada
8 Jun 12
With all the technology in the world...there has to be answers that totally elude me...BUT I do have some incriminating thoughts that I cannot voice here! After all this is said and done, tho, I do NOT believe in "gendercide", either! A practice being implemented in developed countries that is a bit scary.
@allknowing (153544)
• India
8 Jun 12
And care we must perga.. It hurts specially when those educated take pride in feeling great about the number that is added to the progeny. Not that everyone is cared for. Looking at the way some members live it is pathetic to see them dying forlorn and lonley and getting together only for functions and merry making!
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
8 Jun 12
Awareness and serious awareness is what is called for.