Why some separated parents have grudge toward each other
By kingparker
@kingparker (9673)
United States
June 12, 2012 8:00pm CST
Why people intends to make tragedy to happen, and mostly, the children will suffer from all these traumatic memories. Today, from a news, a boy called 911 to notify the authority his father killed his mother in Ohio. And the boy witness the whole thing himself. The mother suppose to drop her 2 children for the mother, through some arguments, the father took a knife and chase her out of his apartment. Next thing the boy knows, his mother was stabbed to death and lay on the grass. Since separated, why couples still have such big grudge toward each other. Moving on, and be peace.
5 responses
@ARIES1973 (11944)
• Legaspi, Philippines
13 Jun 12
That was a very sad news. It might happened when they did not agree on some things like custody of children before they separate ways. But it should not reach the point of hurting each other.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
13 Jun 12
Crazy, crazy. When people are in extreme anger, they lost control of themselves, and that is why they put themselves in an extreme situation, which they might not be able to return.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
Oh my, that's totally a bad situation for the kid to witness. He should get psychiatric help after the incident to make sure it won't affect his psychological and emotional state.
@GemmaR (8517)
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25 Jun 12
I think that there are a lot of people who take their differences out on their child, and will end up using them as a weapon, and this is something that should not be tolerated because it can have some terrible consequences. When you have a child with somebody, you have to come to terms with the fact that this means that you're going to have to talk to them and communicate about your child for at least the next 18 years until they grow up and are able to make their own decisions. You should talk to them only about your child, and try to make things work so that you would be able to move forward for the sake of your child's future.
@penrockerchic (1903)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
That is some terrible news and sadly it's reality. Most marriages that end up badly, with so much unresolved issues between both parties will still in a way cause some problems sometime in the future. As traumatic as that is, other people who love the kids like aunts, uncles and grandparents should be there for him no matter what especially when the kid is still clearly traumatized with his witnessing and all.
@Cale2012 (114)
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20 Jun 12
Because divorce is bad thing for couple, they must be confront with many conflicts in daily life such as time schedule, housework, payment,friends, action and so on. Finally they can't solve these problems in peace. Even someone got quarrel and sad feeling. So they will grudge toward each other.Not each couple will be like this.But we need to think it is ususal in common. In the world, some thing will happen out of your mind.Don't worry, this is a real life. Don't criticize anyone or anything.
