Would you remain ever unmarried?
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
Bangladesh
7 responses
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
20 Jun 12
Hi,
Knowing is very different from loving. Be friendly and open up discussing with her about your liking towards her. If she's interested, then you can go ahead. I think remain unmarried forever without expressing your love seems unwise decision. Love shuld be there between the couples - doesn't matter before marriage or after marriage. Love marriages and arranged marriages has their own pros & cons.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
20 Jun 12
Hi,
I didn't mean to say by discussing you can fall in love. I mean until unless you Tell/express your feelings / vice versa, how do you know what's in their mind?
Which marriage is sustainable? The marriage which has a strong foundation of trust, respect for each other, fair understanding will definitely sustain. That's what i said, love can happen before /after marriage. 
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
20 Jun 12
Hi viju, loving each other happens simultaneously and automatically. Loving by discussing is bogus. Who told you that? Loving has not any preset topic or time. I can say some one that you love me, for example, though I wont be able to show them any sign or evidence as proof of your loving me. So which marriage is sustainable and why? Would you please narrate the pros and cons of love marriage and arrange mariage. Anyway dont plz think me any love expert.lol
@dfollin (27267)
• United States
20 Jun 12
Sometimes the best marriages start out with not being in love.Then they accidentally,gradually fall in love.
This I have heard of as "love comes softly",where you just don't fall in love head over heals with fireworks and all.Sometimes those kind of marriages do not work out.
If you and this girl trust and respect each other and you feel that this kind of marriage will work for you,then go for it.
Good Luck!
This I have heard of as "love comes softly",where you just don't fall in love head over heals with fireworks and all.Sometimes those kind of marriages do not work out.
If you and this girl trust and respect each other and you feel that this kind of marriage will work for you,then go for it.
Good Luck!
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
Agree with the idea of dfollin ! Loves comes softly , never will it be force.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
14 Sep 12
Well, I am at confused state over this question. Since I am the only child of my parents, the family pressure wold be immense on me to get married. I enjoy being a bachelor and the marriage obviously bring in more responsibilities on you. But the problem would be, after some years all my friends would move off and then i would start feeling lonely. I think then I might get married too.
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
15 Sep 12
Hi varun, But you aint either mentioned where you are affaired with any girl or aint told wether you would get an arrange marriage. Stay well.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
14 Sep 12
I will only share my bed with someone I love so if I dont love them I wont marry them . I would much rather stay single and find other thing to take my mind off love . It would be hard to not have love but marriage should be about love or you will feel cheated and get cheat on .
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
15 Sep 12
Hi silver, So you are on behalf of marriage via love. And if so does not happen than its not necessary to be off love or on love. It comes automatically. We should neither keep waiting for it nor go wink any guy or girl. Love is just a fire which melts down two peices of ice simultaneously. But dont think please I aint any love expert. Stay well.
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
20 Jun 12
Hmm.. Id rather be unmarried for the rest of my life than try squeezing myself in a relationship wherein love couldnt last. In fact, i can see it coming.. Yah, it hurts every once in a while, especially when you witness all your friends getting married and you come left out.. hayyyyyyyyy... it sure is gonna hurt...
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
21 Jun 12
Hi grace, I am not prescribing you to squeeze your self to be in relation. Falling in relation is a matter of accident. It may not even happen in our life. Better lets be in our old method aka arrange method. Atleast this old method will save you from remaining unmarried, for example.lol Because remaining unmarried is the pathetic thing in the world.lolz
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
20 Jun 12
Hi dansaz, what about your belief about marriage then? Thanks
@viji_v2 (727)
• India
20 Jun 12
Love marriage is something common now in our place. Or we have arranged marriage system only here. Yes it is parents would decide the bride or groom and later the other would see them and get married. As now the technology improved and also education, they are allowed to speak with each other before marriage. Just imagine the situation is worse in olden days.
Only a few people will remain unmarried in our place.
