Whom Do You Love the Most?
By Aminul Islam
@aminul842700 (861)
Dhaka, Bangladesh
July 7, 2012 11:20am CST
Dear friends, it is very interesting question but somebody may not take it spontaneously. Because it is a critical question at this stage. Someone loves her mother/father/gf/bf/son/daughter. There are many people, at initial stage they used to love his/her parents (mother/father), then gf/bf and in course of time son/daughter. So it is hard to answer the question in single word. Same for me also. Now I love my two sons. Please share your feelings without any hesitation. Here we all are friends. Have a very nice day.
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@psychoartist (756)
• United States
7 Jul 12
hi aminul....i love my parents and my son a lot and my husband's family and our dog the princess but i have to say that i love mr. psychoartist the most of anybody in the world and always will....he is everything to me, my soulmate, best friend, lover and husband, the man of my dreams...with mr. psychoartist i am complete, the me i am supposed to be and blissfully happy...i love him as a person and a man and have the utmost respect for him as well...this is wonderful because i could not love a man that i cannot respect...
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
9 Jul 12
Hi Psychiatrist. Thank you so much for your comment. Yes dear we love our mother , father, wife/husband/bf/gf/kid. but love for all is not equal. There might be some disparity. We change our loving partner with the course of time, Our love take different shape. Have a very nice day.
@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
7 Jul 12
Hello Aminul,
Its true that when we are kids we love our parents and when we have our own kids we love our kids more than our parents.
Its normal.Even i also love my two kids more than anyone else in the world 
but i love my parents too so i live in a joint family so that i may remain in touch of my parents.
Its normal.Even i also love my two kids more than anyone else in the world but i love my parents too so i live in a joint family so that i may remain in touch of my parents.@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
9 Jul 12
Hello sjvg. Thank you so much for your comment in my discussion. If you spent more time with your friend or colleague, then you will have better intimacy with friend /colleague. In our childhood, we spend more time with our mother, so at that we love our mother. In our youth we spend more time with our bf/gf, so at that time we love our bf/gf. When we become father/mother, then we spend more time with our children and accordingly we love our kids. Have a very nice day.
@meumeu25 (913)
• United Arab Emirates
7 Jul 12
Hi aminul,
I know this sounds unfair to my other love ones and I know that I am suppose to love them fairly. But I think it is just normal. Right now, I think I love my niece most, I was the one who took good care of her when she was a baby,when her mother started working abroad for her baby's future, and since then I always have this feeling in me to always protect her and love her the best I can. We have developed this closeness to each other. But I have to distance myself a little because I feel like I'm hurting her mother who is my sister. It was hard because even now my niece looks for me first when we have a video chat with my family. My sister always complains about it jokingly, but I know she's hurting because sometimes she pretends to do something while I talk to my niece.
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
9 Jul 12
Hi meumeu, thank you very much for your nice comment. Your comment is nice one. You are very right. Now you are more close to your niece but when you will come across your kid, then obviously you will love your baby. It depends how you are associating with someone. When you have spent much time with your mother, then you have surely loved your mother. Similarly your bf/gf, then kid, then grand kid etc. Have a very nice day.
