i talked with my long lost ex - bf right now

@missjahn (4577)
Philippines
July 22, 2012 6:35am CST
you can never tell the future. i talked with my ex bf now. he is already married with one little girl. he told me that he have a permanent work in the company. he also told me that he will not going to go to a place (to forget his heartbreak), we're still on. but who knows our break-up was the reason for him to seek his one true love and having his own life. i am happy for him. may God bless him and so
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@squallming (1776)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 12
Of course it would be best if we can be successful in the first love we had and together build a happy family. Sometimes things just does not work out. Perhaps there is unresolved issues. But it does not mean that we cannot be friends and maintain a good friendship with one another. We should take lessons from a failed relationship and make sure we do not make the same mistakes.
@missjahn (4577)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
i joked with him that if he was really in-love with me and he was serious about it. he told me that he was not just being showy and that he was really hurt during our break-up. we need affection right, even how naive we are. that is what i am seeking in him during that time. but past is past, he already started his life and mine also. he was just a part of me that sometimes i cherished whenever i can think of him. thanks
@laydee (12811)
• Philippines
22 Jul 12
It's good that his life has meaning now. However, don't go starting new flames though. Perhaps it's just friendship but cut it off once and for all, you wouldn't want to be in the shoes of his partner/wife now. I had talked to my ex too after a few years not being able to talk to the guy who left me confused. He has settled down too and had a baby. When we talked, it seemed he has moved on and has a great wife and kid along with it. But after several times of talking, he tried re-kindling the old flame -- thankfully I was with someone I love dearly and thought that it was not good for him to do so, so I avoided the guy totally. I no longer went to the place where we met (to talk) and blocked his number. Neither did I go online anymore. I was totally determined to make his marriage work. It's been 3 years since the last time we talked, I am glad I didn't do anything to bring back the flame. I wouldn't want to be in the shoes of his wife - I thought, "what if my partner was talking to his ex?" I wouldn't be comfortable at all. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
@missjahn (4577)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
yes :) - i would not able to do that because i am in the sense that it is forbidden and your will wreck what is being built. though i know it is nice to commemorate the sweet past but somehow im holding it back. it is not wise to do it like that. we just chit-chatted on what had happened to him when we broke - up. i know it was my fault. but gee, too young to rekindle our relationship. i am asking if where is his wife and he asked too, if i am already married. just like that sort of topic. i will not try to make a move that will ruined his marriage. and i am not sure if we will talk again. thanks for the sensible topic and of dropping here. regards