Misunderstanding between a married couple, sweethearts

Hi when we were sweetheart I'm always the first one that arrives in our meeting place, imagine he comes 1 to 2 hours late! :(. I look like fool waiting for him. when he arrives smiling at me well all my anger vanished because he was so cute and handsome in my eyes lol. So we have a good date. When we got married we seldom quarrel , if there is really an issue I shout he listen, when he shout I listen :) but we don't quarrel in front of kids and I don't throw anything to him because my Nanay(mom) t old me not to damaged things if we are quarreling because it is unlucky. And we kept quiet if kids are around. But I break the rules when there's a big issue that matters most on my side my family, I acted crazily to him , I shout and didn't listen to his explanations, even with the kids presence I yell... That only happened once and nothing more because he knows where is my limitations of temperament.. and he knows that I am a very patient loving person... When I fall in love it means forever.. Just don't abused it lol.

I'm with Judelen on this one. I've gotten mad at my husband for things before I even knew what the issue really was or when we have something that I feel needs to be talked about I confront him and we talk it out. We very rarely yell or get out of character. I haven't been that mad at him in a long time to the point that I'm yelling or we are having a bad fight. We try to never go to bed mad at each other, especially over petty things. And we always try to resolve the issue that way it doesn't get brought up again in future arguments. =)

Hello! I think all that in relationship gone through misunderstanding that leads to separation. For me I'm not kind of wife that i listen to humors,jealous for nothing but if we have some issues in our relationship we will talk about it before going to bed. The first thing I do to my husband is that I will confront him to the issue and I will listen to him what is his explanation on the issues. So that the time we discuss it seriously and agreed the issues and find ways ways not to have it again. then we embrace and our love will prevail more than our quarrel.

Being married for 17 years, my husband and I had a lot of issues that lead to big fights. Some started petty but eventually gotten to some real discussions between us. as much as possible I suppress my anger coz I hate confrontations. But other times, I really could not keep it to myself. I do not throw things around like other would. I just answer whatever question he is throwing at me or give him answers to some false accusations. It is hard for me to get rid of the bad feeling. The fighting does not ensue long. But I just keep quiet for a long time.