Getting even with those bad remarks

I know what you feel, hotsummer. I was once given a commen here at mylot saying that I did not understand what the topic was about. I couldn't remember now what was thie topic, but what I recall was, with what I said was she has to read between the lines. She took what I said literally. Well, anyway, it's okay. I just ignored her.

Oh I am sorry if my response have hurt your feeling anytime. But I tell my intention is not to hurt anyone here. Have a wonderful day ahead.

Well, that is exactly what is happening right here with my group. They just love to make negative remarks without thinking if their words will gonna hurt somebody or not. Just like last night I was not able to hold my temper because one of my group mates texted me that our supervisor came to our boarding house the other night and told me that I should have to inform them of my whereabouts although they know that I was at my own home. I already leave the issue behind and tried as much as possible to act normally when I go to the office early yesterday. But he reiterated the topic so I flared up and told him that he has no right to know my whereabouts because he is not my husband. I have no obligation to tell them my location or whatever they may call it. I was so angry. At this point he keep silent.

Hi, I also get annoyed when I get bad remarks from someone else. I also feel that i would behave with him like the way he had. But when the time comes I try to avoid bad behaving with others. I think that he would come to know his mistake afterwards. So I shouldn't do things which I don't like others to do with me.

I've had the same sentiments. And like you I Wasn't able to throw back mean words at them. Probably either because I'm a chicken or I just don't think it's worth my while to waste my time, efforts and energy to a bunch of people who are just full of it. Although being the injured party, I wanna be the one to give them a dose of heir own medicine, sometimes getting even isn't always the right thing to do.

Although I'm new to this site I've yet to experience such libelous malevolence!However, I have experienced one or two negative comments on other review sites. I find the best thing to do is ignore them with a blissful insouciance; that way they are not getting what they want: an angry response. If I feel the comments are possibly warranted then I may probe them for further meaning but if they seem willfully hurtful, then ignore. There is no accounting for some sad people but life is too short to waste on poisonous slings and arrows!