Let the past sleep FOREVER....
By ryanong
@ryanong (9664)
Vietnam
September 3, 2012 11:58pm CST
My ex- sent me a message and asked me could i meet him in Nov. to talk? i asked: talk about what? He said for us? I told him if he has anything to talk, just say it now, don't need to wait till Nov. He is silent...
Why is still "for us", why have to wait till Nov.? I used to put him as my first priority whenever I did anything but what did he return to me?...he cared his things only and i felt that i was nothing to him. Now I can't, I have to move forward with my life, with my plan and in Nov. I maybe in Korea already...
I am single now and all is the past already, i don't want my heart is hurt one more time. I told him please don't send msg to me anymore. All was enough and please let the past sleep forever...
4 people like this
14 responses
@toyota4k (1208)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
A relationship that didn't prosper can be mended and greater the other way around if given a chance. What I am puzzled of is that why would he really wait till November if the proposal is urgent? If you still care for him as well as he does then love will find it's way because love is powerful that it can even "move mountains."
1 person likes this
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Oh, yes. If you still have the feelings. It's up to you to decide if you'll give him another chance. They say, "LOve is sweeter the second time around." Happymylotting.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
4 Sep 12
I never give a second chance to any ex-, and I wouldn't be a friend with ex- after the love broken also.
I heard that sentence also..but...i haven't no experience of it at all...
Well, in Nov. i maybe in Korea already and he won't have a chance to meet me in person when he comes to Vietnam.
@usmantahir2130 (43)
•
4 Sep 12
Forgive the bad things you do in your past and start a new life
And that you was break the hearts
1 person likes this
@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
4 Sep 12
He had his chance. There is nothing more that he can say to fix things.
Some exes just won't let go--not even when you have moved on to a new relationship. I would say block all possible avenues your ex has in reaching you. Otherwise, you might end up still facing messages from him two years from now.
Exes are exes for a reason.
@Inderjeetkaur (944)
• India
4 Sep 12
May be he wants to come back in your life. I am not aware as to what was the reason of your break up, but would suggest you that if you do not want him back in your life, then make sure not to respond to any of his messages or calls. If you can forgive him and are ready to carry on the relationship 
. If you do not want him back in your life then stop bothering yourself to even respond him. This will only cause you pain. Wish you good luck and a bright and loving future!
. If you do not want him back in your life then stop bothering yourself to even respond him. This will only cause you pain. Wish you good luck and a bright and loving future!
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
4 Sep 12
I remove all this things out of my life but i can't prevent he sends msg to me...sometime i don't reply it..but sometime i replied and tell him don't send msg to me more...
I don't know what he wants, talking about what...but you maybe right, if i don't want he bothers me more, just ignore all his msg...
1 person likes this
@BethelSophia (538)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Oh, sorry to hear about your heart being broken. I think your boyfriend wanted to clarify something about your relationship or maybe he wanted to gain you back. Well you have the right to make a decision if you are that hurt then I think you have to move and don't let your boyfriend break you forever. In life you have to be broken in order to be whole. Your ex broke your heart but someone will come into your life and mend that broken heart.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
4 Sep 12
I don't know what he wants to clarify more...i am not happy to receive his msg as well as talking with him. I just want all is the past forever. I also don't want to be a friend with ex-.
Yes, i do believe in the future and for sure one day a right man will come to me...
@BethelSophia (538)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
Well, if that's what your heart is saying then I would suggest to do what you feel. If you wanted to cut the communication so forget about the past then go for it my friend. In your country is it easy to change phone number? I'm wondering if it's possible because if it's as easy as changing numbers here in my country then you may change your number so he can't bother you anymore by calling you.
@litvillegas (1274)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
Hello friend
I'm sorry to hear that your heart is hurt my friend. I understand how you feel right now. I know it's kind of hard thing to deal with heart aches. But the best thing to do is to let go of the past and have a brand new start. It's time for you to move on and meet someone who deserves best. Just forgive him and tell him that you don't want to hurt again and past is past.
Thanks for sharing. Have a great day ^_^
@litvillegas (1274)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
I know moving on is not that easy but when you always think the positive side then no doubt you can move on with your life easily. If he still continue sending you a message then I guess it's better to tell him frankly.
Thanks..^_^
@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
4 Sep 12
Wow ... here it is only September and he is saying wanting to meet in November? No wonder you were asking why then. But I think you are smart telling him no and do not contact you again and move on. If you are happier with your life now away from him and being single ,he needs to learn to accept that and move on. I applaud you for being strong like this and standing up to him. He needs to realize you mean business and he just needs to move on.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
4 Sep 12
To be honest, i am happy with my single time now. I could focus on my study, took a good TOEIC score, etc..that i could not do it when i was in the relationship with him because of debate, conflicts...
I used to put him as my first priority and all my plans behind, but now i can't...
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
It's understandable why you act that way, it might have been a bad breakup or maybe he acted like a jerk before, and that's why you said your life is much better without his nuisance. It made me wonder too why he would want to talk only in November. If the world ended, there's no November to look forward to. Lol.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Oh, I agree with you. If he really wants you back why should he wait for two months? What's with November? I guess you have to move on. You deserve a better person. You have to finish that chapter in your life yourself. Don't even give him any attention because he doesn't deserve it. He's not worth your time. Happy mylotting.
@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
4 Sep 12
Yes, I like what you said or did.
All the 'EX' should get such a treat and it is a lesson for them and they should not keep any more 'ex'es in their life. He may be thinking that you will be still depend on him and will obey or go for his needs.
I appreciate your decision and hope you will stick on what you decided and won't change by Nov. Let he learn something from you!
Regards
I appreciate your decision and hope you will stick on what you decided and won't change by Nov. Let he learn something from you!
Regards
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
I think you are still hurting, and it is okay. You do not have to force yourself if things could no longer be patched up. Just move forward and be happy. No need to look back. You've done what you were supposed to. I wish you find peace and happiness!
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
4 Sep 12
Hey i can understand the condition you might be going through but i think you should give him a second chance and warn him that he should mend his ways so that he does not deceive you again or else you will dump him this time. To err is human and to forgive is divine. I think you should give him a second chance and sort out the things. What say?
@Pale_moon (98)
•
4 Sep 12
My girlfriend did the same as your ex-.She always cared her things.I usually thought that I was an insignificant role to her.But she is the most important one to me.I'm ofen depressed to that.
