Any advice that you can give here?
By Resy King
@resy21curapika (2151)
Pasay, Philippines
October 2, 2012 5:35pm CST
I was long single before I met this guy. I am a Taurus and he's Scorpio. At our first time we've dated we get along well, and for the first few days that we've been into a relationship we have small arguments which is pretty much agreeable. He's a type of guy which is kinda possessive at times and I am a bit insecure when he tries to take over the decision makings.
But one thing is for sure, we do love each other. He gives out effort in calling me 3 times or more in a day and I assure him hugs and kisses more than her previous girlfriend can give despite of our hectic schedules. He's also workin on a heater company which demands him to be at work from 8:00 AM to 5:00 PM while I go to work from 10:00 PM until 7:00 AM.
We do have this great sync that keeps us going, probably chemistry boiling... all that fuzzy feeling is now with us and I am not quite sure how to make it last for more. Any suggestions, mylotters? Let me know. Thanks.
3 responses
@CelticSoulSister (1640)
• Southend-On-Sea, England
3 Oct 12
It sounds as though you have a very good relationship going there. Taurus and Scorpio relationships, oddly enough, can work and be brilliant. It's not untypical of Scorpio people to be possessive and jealous, but sadly I don't really know how I'd deal with it if I had a Scorpio partner (I'm Gemini). I'd probably feel overwhelmed. Does he feel insecure for some reason, like maybe a past girlfriend gave him good reason to feel that way? If so, I'm sure in time he'll learn to trust you and forget about his past.
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@resy21curapika (2151)
• Pasay, Philippines
14 Aug 17
Thanks for your reply. I finally get over with this Scorpio guy but I married another Scorpio guy. What a coincidence with these traits that I mentioned before. He did understand me well which I really appreciated much. We get along well for 3 years and ongoing :)
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@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
Always remember to value and have a balance view of both your relationship and yourself. As I always say, communication is very important in any kind of relationships. If you're experiencing some difficulties/issues as early as now, you should open this to your guy as soon as possible. You should talk about it and do some adjustments to work it out. The secret of a long lasting relationship does not really depend on how long you've been together but on how good are you both in solving problems in your relationship. You guys have different work schedules but I think that you two can spend some time between 6PM-8PM. You can actually have dinner together and talk to catch up on how things are going with both of you.
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@resy21curapika (2151)
• Pasay, Philippines
14 Aug 17
Thank you so much for your reply. I really appreciate it. Hope to hear more from you soon :)
@kitmurphy (81)
• United States
3 Oct 12
I don't know much about the astrology signs but I have some relationship experience.
In my opinion, most of all you have to spend time together, when you can. This could include going out to do things you both like. You should also try something out that he may like but you have not tried and he should do the same for you. Other than that sometimes occasional notes left for the other person can be sweet or having special meals together on.
The guy I am with now, we sometimes cook together.
In the end you have to find things that will be special just for the both of you.
