Mother: dictator,why?
By bembzee
@bembzee (768)
Philippines
October 7, 2012 1:30am CST
Mothers can be annoying sometimes. I wonder why they can't let go of their children to enjoy their teen age life. They often dictates them what to do, how to do it or when to do it. It makes me think that mother's are dictator.
What do you think? There can be good explanation for this. Besides, mother knows what's best for you, right?
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3 responses
@swats89 (1729)
• India
7 Oct 12
Hi bem. Dictator is really harsh word to say to your mother. You know in teenage life we tend to do things which make us happy. We don't think what we are doing and jump in pit hole of trouble which may ruin our whole life. It's not our fault because hormone changes in our body make us to do things like that. So our mom had gone through the same phase when they were teen and they don't want us to repeat what had happen to her. You should also think for her side too. She is your mom and she will be the one who will feel more hurt if you make some mistake which will ruin your whole life. So there should be friendly relation with your mom so each of you can understand each other better. Cheers.
@bembzee (768)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
Mothers don't want their children to experience what they have gone through in life. It is always a mother's instinct to protect them. However, they are too protective sometimes that we cannot do a thing for ourselves. It would be more nicer if they would allow us to fall and learn from our mistakes.
@swats89 (1729)
• India
7 Oct 12
Hi. Just pray to GOD that you will never be in such trouble in which it is impossible to come out. For example suppose you get pregnant and the father of boy didn't accept the child. Your mom had foretold you that the boy is not good for you. But you didn't listen to her and you get pregnant. You go to doctor and doc told you that there is no way to abort the child. So what will you do? If you listen to your mom then it will never happened to you. Sorry, its just an example to make you understand. I think it would be late to learn in that case. Cheers.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
Given the fact that our mothers are indeed older than us, they tend to think that they also know better and what's best for us. However, they sometimes forget and ignore our own emotions and proceeds to such action that they believe to be best suited for us. The more a mother dictates, the more love your mother is giving to you. 
@kokomo (1866)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
I don't think so that mothers are dictators. They are just thinking for our sake and they just taking good care of us.We cannot please our mothers not to do that unless we do something good that their trust with us in obeying her rules will be done. We also know that they are well experienced in life so I think just follow them and they will do the same. They will give what we want and that is our freedom.
@bembzee (768)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
It is very hard to earn the trusts of a mother. But when you did it was like accomplishing something. On the contrary, having sets of rules is kind of a demand rather than freedom. Learning to trusts them is like giving responsibility. So i learned to be responsible in my actions.
