Am I insecured? or less confidence?

Hello. I was also like that before. But then I realized that it's all in the mind. So what I did was to trust myself in every way I could because no one will be with me but myself alone. And so, be contented and pray for Divine Providence to guide you in the process of accepting and trusting yourself. I hope you do the same. Good day :)

I think I also have the same problem. I don't like to be with many people because I feel like everyone is staring at me and I really don't like that kind of feeling. I can't move properly. Sometimes, I also want to be like those people who are not afraid of doing anything they want. Confident of everything.

Are you working? What do you do in life? What do you think is the reason or reasons of your insecurities? Was it from childhood or due to recent failures in life? What Im trying to point here out is for you to assess yourself. You are the only who can help yourself. Your friends and family will only be your supporters and strength. Discover the triggering factors, from there you can start planning how to beat your enemy, your insecurity. Enrich yourself, always believe on yourself. No one is born worthless. We just have to find whats our worth in this world. Physical is no guarantee for a full swing confidence but us as a whole does.

I read in one of your posts that you are the head of your company. Come on, you can't be the leader of any company if you do not have confidence in yourself. In fact you look good in your photo so there is no need for you to be insecure about anything. Just go out there and talk to people, to your office mates, etc. Join clubs that allow you to mingle with others.

I have also been this way when I was younger. I wouldn't want to be in the "spotlight" coz I feel awkward being around people. But being away from them makes them think of you as a snob. People would think that you could not blend in to any kind of people. Wouldn't it be happier if you could share your thoughts with others? enjoy chatting with others and learn new things from them? Think of how much of life you are losing by keeping yourself from the world. Just be yourself. It would take just some time for you to come out of your shell. But if you are determined to be finally out, then you'll have the self-confidence that you need.

I think to overcome that is not to look at yourself always. Reach out to others then you will find out that your insecurity will be gone. We also cannot please everybody. Hold your head up high and know that you are a creation of God, that is wonderfully made.

Try to hang out with friends more often,that will help you overcome insecurities and gain self confidence too. Mingling with other people more often make you feel comfortable- how to deal with different people and understand each differences. Sometimes you feel too low or down and see ourselves as underdog due to lack of self confidence. No one can help you, but yourself alone.