Give up principles because life.
By Polang
@tkonlinevn (6427)
Vietnam
November 25, 2012 9:42pm CST
When I was student, I needed money so I got a tutor job. But I couldn't get a tutor job if I'm a student. I must tell a lie that I'm a teacher! I don't want to tell lie. I even hate this thing. However, I couldn't have choice. I must tell lie if I want to have a job! At the fist time, I feel uncomfortable. But then, I gradually get used to it. I tried to work well in order that my students could believe me.
We sometimes must give up our principles because life, right? Have you ever had this experience?
4 responses
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 12
I do agree that many people lost their ethics or principles in order to survive.
For me, I shall not go beyond my principle to survive.
I shall not lie because it is against my religion and my principle.
I must try to persuade someone by the facts that I know.
With good principle, I believe I can live better and happier.
@tkonlinevn (6427)
• Vietnam
10 Jan 13
Thank God if we can keep our good principles. You're lucky because you can do that. Wish you're happy!
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Not telling the whole truth just to be able to do something important? I could not recall any incidents. But I rarely take those kinds of chances. I always want to be sure that I know what kind of job I am applying for and that my qualifications would fit the job.
@tkonlinevn (6427)
• Vietnam
10 Jan 13
You know, I'm a good tutor. I can teach well. However, parents didn't believe me. They like teachers. So, I must tell a lie. You know, we sometimes don't have choice.
@prashu228 (37518)
• India
26 Nov 12
I have never experienced this kind of situation , but i agree because people doesn't give us job we are honest and say i have no experience right? so better prove yourself so that people wont find it and that way no harm is done to them or you either.
@StLouisMetroTutoring (678)
• St. Peters, Missouri
26 Nov 12
I guess that depends. If your principles are right and wrong, then no, we must never give them up. Not saying that I haven't. I've bent my principles, broken my principles in half, and even just plain ignored my principles. However, everytime I did, because they were fundamental principles to the way I manage my life, I felt extreme guilt. The horrible feeling I had to live with wasn't worth whatever I got from giving up my principles. I guess I equate principles with my conscience. There are some rules, values, that are basic to who I am and what I stand for. To then undermine those and go counter to them, turns me into a different person. And I don't like that person. On the other hand, there are some principles, or values, or self-rules, that aren't really basic to who I am, they're more like preferences that I use to guide my life. For example, one of my principles is that it's better to be happy than rich. That's great, but happiness doesn't pay the bills. I think these types of principles can and should be given up if the need arises. Even with this principle, I would give up my happiness and do something that made me unhappy if I couldn't make rent. However, I wouldn't go out and steal to get the money. I do have the luxury of knowing I have other options so I could do other things. And of course, why we're giving up the principle has a lot to do with it too. I would give up my stealing principle if my daughter's life depended on it, for example. Just a few thoughts.
@tkonlinevn (6427)
• Vietnam
10 Jan 13
You're thinking very carefully about life :) You know how is happiness and suffering. Wish you're happy!





